also one other thing, to check to see if you have a gambling problem is simple, say you lose $500 or $1000 playing pool or betting on the rail, enough $$$ to notice and piss you off but not enough to make you sleep in the street-you have more than enough to bet again that night, it might be $50 for some guys I was like that for years, so just think of what that number is for you it dosent matter how big or small, for me its about $3000-when I lose $3,000 i'm pissed, plane and simple.
Ok so here is the test: Fatboy loses $3,000 betting on the wrong guy on the rail, or when I was in Reno this past Dec my eye was going bad(its ok now) I lost $1200 to a guy I know he wanted to keep playing, I did too but couldnt-I couldnt see. But back to my point I lose the $3,000-HOW BAD DO I WANT TO GET $$$ IN ACTION AGAIN TO GET EVEN??? OR PLAY THE GUY AGAIN AND WIN??? If you cant stand it and want to get a bet down so bad you cant think straight so you can get even, then you have a gambling problem, If you can sit there with $9,000 left in your pocket after losing $3,000 and are pissed but not going to start chasing by going to a poker room, taking the worst of it on another bet just to have a chance toi get even then you most likely do NOT have a problem.
The guys who can walk away from a loss and are not going crazy inside typicually dont have a gambling problem.
Also if you can put a bet down for that number I just talked about and go to the room and go to sleep, telling someone to call when the game is finished up, you probably dont have a problem either, the guys who have to see everyshot and sweat it hard sometimes have a bit of a gambling problem or are more likely to devlope a gambling problem, this isnt anywhere near as serious as the "I gotta get even before I can leave people" but another signal of a potential problem, some people just like to sweat it out and that rush is enough and never develope a gambling problem, infact i dont like to sweat matches I bet on, or if I do I dont think of the bet.
So there are a couple of ways to check and see how likely yu are to having a problem, can you walk away loser? and to a much lesser extent do you have to sweat your bet(for rail bets)?
I have done alot of reasearch on this topic as it has facinated me since I was about 16, i cant cite any referances but I have done alot of reading, talked to GA(because of my ex girl), went to a shrink for the same reason-he was telling me about all sorts of reasons why people gamble or like the big gambler image like Tooth, they Female escape players who go play 24 hour sessions of video poker to escape their stress of kids etc they just zone out on Video poker, which is the 2nd hardest gambling addiction to stop, horses have the strongest hold, "Hold"=hardest to stop playing, roulette is the easiest but I have a friend here in Vegas thats been playing that game and living with no car making $100,000/year as a telemarketer because the roulette keeps him busted for the past 25 years, he lives in the hood no phone, cell phone usually doisent have any minutes on it cause he is busted, he bites me for $$$ here and there, I've seen it all and stuidyed it-instead of spelling,
the past 2 posts are factual and not my opinion, just what I have been told by the people who are experts in this field of psychocology and also articles i have read.
eric