Your wit is appreciated. I suspect that observer bias may be the term for which you are searching (see http://www.encyclo.co.uk/define/Observer bias ). Perhaps the theory related to the resolution of cognitive dissonance (see http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance ) may be relevant to your statements. While these topics may not have been specifically addressed in the pool hall curriculum, you seem to have a grasp of the underlying ideas. I have long held that reposts should be commensurate with that which is given and do not of course attribute any malevolence to your written word.
On the other hand if you suspect something less than open honest dialog is in the offing perhaps a review of cathexis and anticathexis as related to interpersonal relations might be more appropriate as some of the followers of Freud would have it (see http://www.enotes.com/psychoanalysis-encyclopedia/anticathexis).
Yes -- that would be my tongue firmly planted in my cheek.
BTW what you perceive as inferred (implied?) justification is nothing more than an attitude which espouses a belief in the goodness and integrity of man and his attempts at honest dialog.
Thank you berry much -- it is good to know that the occasional bonny mot, beyond the frat boy level (you know who you are

As far as attitudes, it's going to be pretty hard to sing a hearty chorus of Kumbaya with your tongue in your cheek.
And no. Inferred is what I meant:
http://sociology.buffalo.edu/documents/hoffmansocinquiryarticle_000.pdf
Lou Figueroa