Oh, I think it's pretty clear...
~ Seller offers Mottey shafts for sale and advertises them as 12.7 and 12.8
~ Buyer specifically asks Seller in his FS thread to verify the size
~ After getting confirmation back, Buyer sends seller his payment
~ Seller ships shafts
~ After receiving the shafts, Buyer measures and sees they are on the low side on 12mm, therefore not as advertised
~ Buyer asks Seller to return shafts for a refund
~ Seller refuses to allow shafts to be returned for a refund and introduces the story about how they weren't actually his, the money is gone, he took the other guy's word and didn't actually measure them, bla, bla, bla
~ Buyer is left to try to sell the misadvertised shafts himself to recoup his loss
~ If/when that happens, maybe Seller will make up difference
Does that about sum it up?? I think you've definitely helped me to get a better understanding.
BTW, this isn't a crappy situation. People sometimes make mistakes. What's good is that you now can step up to the plate and correct it. Josh, Joe did not buy the shafts from your buddy.....he bought them from you.
Do the right thing.