When I spoke with thorsten hohmann last week his answer was short and to the point "azb.. to many people that can't run two balls and think they know how to fix pool"
I wouldn't post here much either probably.
Well that assessment is dead on, describing a certain group of people here, but there are other groups of people here too. Just like anywhere else in the world though... you could have a group of 50 well behaved, positive people and you throw in 2 troublemakers or negative people and they can wreck havoc on the whole group. A outsider passing thru would think the whole group was dysfunctional
Jay Helfert has a great outlook on this place and the role he plays in it. That's why he survives and enjoys it. People can get too wrapped up in it and it can overtake their lives. People can also get too wrapped up in themselves, and think they are more then what they really are.
You have to stay grounded and realize you're the same person you are in life. You're no king here, you're no expert here, you're the same bloke you are in real life. It's amazing how 4 or 5 people could give someone some praise or tell them they are this great person, just because of something they did or said, next thing you know they think they are a star and now they expect star treatment and become a diva.
I could have 100 people tell me I'm the greatest thing since the invention of CTE, or I could have 100 people tell me I'm the biggest idiot they've ever seen or heard from.... doesn't matter to me... I'm still the same person. After all... it's JUST THE INTERNET.
People I know that are well grounded and that I respect, their praise or criticism means much more then people I don't know from a hole in the ground, but there a very few people that fall in that category because it takes a long time to get a true read on a person, just by reading posts in a forum by them. It is possible though, I think I can judge a person of who they are by their posts, but it takes quite a while and you have to read every post by them for a long time to get a true read on them.
I can read a person in a pretty short time in person, but it's much more difficult to do, just by reading words in a forum.
It just so happens the other day, I was looking at the Ask The Pros forums... the people they got subforums for, don't post anymore, so they need some new people in there. At least one of them, is sadly no longer with us anymore.
All in all though.. it's just a forum, a mix of cool people, positive people, negative people, people with passion for the sport that want to make a difference, people that could care less about it, troublemakers, blowhards, people that donate, people that take only... it's a wide variety.
It's like.... real life, except we're putting all those personalities in a small room and you can walk in the door and walk out anytime you want, but once inside, it's small, everything is magnified.
Just have fun with it, don't take it too seriously.. if you find you, step away for a bit. Don't wait until you've had a meltdown. Your meltdown will never be forgotten in a forum. :grin: