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jalapus logan

jalapus logan

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My divorce wss finalized this week. Pool, travel, hiking and fishing will now be the order of operations. I wonder if it would be bad or good to date a lady pool player one day? Inquiring minds want to know 🤔

P.S. I gathered up the last of my stuff from the marital estate and was reunited with my 36" yellow wrecker bar. God life is so sweet right now. And steak is for dinner dammit
 
jalapus logan said:
My divorce wss finalized this week. Pool, travel, hiking and fishing will now be the order of operations. I wonder if it would be bad or good to date a lady pool player one day? Inquiring minds want to know 🤔

P.S. I gathered up the last of my stuff from the marital estate and was reunited with my 36" yellow wrecker bar. God life is so sweet right now. And steak is for dinner dammit
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I hope everything works out and you get set up again. If memory serves me correctly you had a nice table or two?.
 
jalapus logan said:
My divorce wss finalized this week. Pool, travel, hiking and fishing will now be the order of operations. I wonder if it would be bad or good to date a lady pool player one day? Inquiring minds want to know 🤔

P.S. I gathered up the last of my stuff from the marital estate and was reunited with my 36" yellow wrecker bar. God life is so sweet right now. And steak is for dinner dammit
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Good for you I`ve been there myself. Do what you want to do with your life. If you wanna date a girl from pool league ask her out. Maybe its what you need right now. Start slow and see where it goes from there. Just don`t rush things let it play out. I`ve always believed that good things happen to those who wait for things to happen. Wish you the best sir hope things work out the way you want them to.
Jeff
 
hurricane145 said:
It can create problems if you have to compete against each other or are just competitive with each other. Been there done that and have seen it a few times. It never ended well.
I prefer someone who has their own hobby-like interests or that we share non competitive activities.
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Fair point, I had not considered the impact of competitive personalities. Maybe I'll stick to dating artists.
 
Cuebuddy said:
I hope everything works out and you get set up again. If memory serves me correctly you had a nice table or two?.
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Thanks Cuebuddy. I sometimes take solace in the certainty that this has to happen. She has become an alcoholic and had become abusive and there remained only one clear path forward. I joke on this site mostly, but I feel compelled to share these facts become someone out there may need to hear it and may need to know that there is a good life to be had, but it's gonna take being honest with yourself, and it's gonna take some courage and a whole lot of work.

Back to pool, yep, my 9' diamond is now in storage and my path forward is unclear. But I'm thinking we will meet each other again soon enough....
 
pooldawg8 said:
Good for you I`ve been there myself. Do what you want to do with your life. If you wanna date a girl from pool league ask her out. Maybe its what you need right now. Start slow and see where it goes from there. Just don`t rush things let it play out. I`ve always believed that good things happen to those who wait for things to happen. Wish you the best sir hope things work out the way you want them to.
Jeff
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Thanks Jeff, I'll take well wishes anywhere I can find them.
 
jalapus logan said:
Thanks Cuebuddy. I sometimes take solace in the certainty that this has to happen. She has become an alcoholic and had become abusive and there remained only one clear path forward. I joke on this site mostly, but I feel compelled to share these facts become someone out there may need to hear it and may need to know that there is a good life to be had, but it's gonna take being honest with yourself, and it's gonna take some courage and a whole lot of work.
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Cheers to a new beginning. đź‘Ť
skogstokig said:
if i had to guesstimate i think marriages with pool room waitresses have a higher success rate than female pool players. you get a bit of the understanding of what you do, but not the competitive or game addiction stuff
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Pool room waitress.... the first good sign is they work. They have a job. Little things huh.
 
jalapus logan said:
My divorce wss finalized this week. Pool, travel, hiking and fishing will now be the order of operations. I wonder if it would be bad or good to date a lady pool player one day? Inquiring minds want to know 🤔

P.S. I gathered up the last of my stuff from the marital estate and was reunited with my 36" yellow wrecker bar. God life is so sweet right now. And steak is for dinner dammit
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I hope ya got the can opener! Nothing worse than the first time you go to open a can of something and realize ya aint got one no more! :)

Best of luck. Don't look to hard for a woman. Just have a great time, they will appear.
 
I got divorced 2 years ago, thought I would play a lot more pool. However with all the Fargo capped and everything else being handicapped I probably compete less. I do most of my playing at home.

As far a women I haven’t really dated any in the last 2 years. At 57 years old the dating game ain’t all it’s cracked up to be.

I have everything I need in this world and don’t ask anybody for anything so I just enjoy fishing and doing whatever comes to my mind with no one to answer to. I’m not even sure that I want to have a serious relationship with anyone ever again. If the right person comes along maybe but the freedom you mentioned is very stress free way to live.
 
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jalapus logan said:
Thanks Cuebuddy. I sometimes take solace in the certainty that this has to happen. She has become an alcoholic and had become abusive and there remained only one clear path forward. I joke on this site mostly, but I feel compelled to share these facts become someone out there may need to hear it and may need to know that there is a good life to be had, but it's gonna take being honest with yourself, and it's gonna take some courage and a whole lot of work.

Back to pool, yep, my 9' diamond is now in storage and my path forward is unclear. But I'm thinking we will meet each other again soon enough....
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There is nothing better than getting away from the stress of a bad relationship. 25 years ago I got out with only my car, tools, and clothes but it was well worth it.
 
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