I only played money a couple of times and it was little amounts. Actually, the 1st time, was a race to 4 (9ball) for 20$. I was playing alone when a guy came to me and ask me to play. I had no clue of how he was playing never saw him before. I know that was really risky, but i took the challenge. I said to myself that this could bring me some self condifence in my play. I won the 1st game. I must say i was really nervous (at the 1st game) but winning it calmed me down, then i forgot about the money, i kinda thought it was already won (bad thing) but forgotting about the money made me focus more on the game, on the shots i was doing. Maybe that the guy had time to warm up with the 1st game, 'cause he won the second one... 1-1... it's to restart, i don'T lead anymore. I lost the next game, 1-2. I was starting to think that i was loosing that 20$ i just put into the pocket. I know i was playing the amount i was ready to loose, so i don't complain, but i thought the guy was just better than me and didn't show it in the 1st game. Then i did 2-2, he won the next one 2-3, then 3-3, and then, i won the last game 4-3, and got the 20$. I learned stuff with that. First, i helped me with my self confidance about pool, second, i showed me that i don't fall under the pressure, i can stay focussed. And i learned another thing too : next time, i gotta check how the player does! I don't want to take risks like that, it wasn't that smart from me. It happend one other time that a guy i didn't know came to me and ask to play for money, i said no, we played just for fun (for the price of the table actually -- which i didn't mind, 'cause i was already alone on the table and i got a discount on pool, 'cause i'm kind of a regular at my local poolhall). I followed my instinct, and i did great, 'cause that guy beat 9-2 and 9-3... good thing i didn't put money on that, this time. Another time, i saw the first guy again, and played again (race to 4 for 20$) but this time i lost... he was not playing better, i guess i seized his level. And i guess we are quite even.
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Cuedog said:
Is there a concern that even if you control the amount you gamble, that you might lose the love of the game? What I mean is, whenever you decide not to gamble, will the game be somewhat boring to you if you are used to gambling every time you step to the table? Very important question.
Gene
i didn't really realized that... you're right : it's a very important question! I still love the game for itself (maybe because gambling is not a habit at all to me) but you got a good point. I know myself, and gambling has to be done wisely, i think i am... but u got a good point.