Wow, lots of feedback here.
Laura,
I hear where you're coming from. Maybe I should consider myself lucky because I play in a pretty good league. My LO is very fair, and has some quality people working for him. There is very little sandbagging in my league, from what I can tell. This makes it a LOT easier to stand up to it, and do things right. You mentioned 7's who would get upset about making a stink over safes. These people would not be looked upon very favorably in my league. Maybe the APA in your area just sucks? Though I suppose if cheating is as rampant as you say, then at least your other league members will be playing at lower than actual handicaps?
I played a guy last night. Yes!!! i finally got to play. He was obviously a sandbagging three, had been a three for three + sessions, knew safe,shape, very good at shooting and read the table including some knowlege of which balls to play next. The other three on their team told me she was a four and it took her a long time to go to a three and she loved being a three, did not want to be a four.
I felt great. I played good shooting, was told I played like a typical three, did some good safes, some better shape, and some good choices on the 'right' next ball. I just wanted to play. Next session I am trying to get on two leagues. Even if they sandbag, I will get to play.
Actually, Pop, it is also the opinion of the APA, and since that is what we are really talking about here, there really is little room for dispute. Page 31 of the 2003-4 Team manual says: "Intentionally missing shots for the purpose of increasing innings and holding your skill level down to gain an unfair advantage over your opponent is cheating!"
I do not cheat. I try to follow the rules. It is too bad that so many cheat. The league could be much better if they did not.
Laura