Sometimes a tragic miss at a critical moment becomes baggage one must carry for a pool lifetime.
There's no more tragic miss that I know of than Jim Rempe's miss of game ball against Balsis in the final of the 1974 US Open Straight Pool championships, the world championship event at the time. Balsis ran out to win 200 -199. Rempe, in his mid-twenties, was a very young player with tremendous promise who'd surely win a couple of world championships, or so we all reckoned. But here we are thirty-one years later, and it never happened. Jim Rempe has hade a wonderful career and is now a deserving BCA Hall of Famer, but he'd sure like to have that world championship. In an interview just a few years ago, Jimmy was asked if he thought about that miss often. His answer, refreshing in its honesty, was "all the time."
Other times, a tragic miss can inspire and motivate, and make one more determined to succeed.
I hope Melissa Herndon will forgive me for relating this, but at 2002 WPBA San Diego, Melissa needed to win her losers bracket match to earn her WPBA tour status, critical to her as it would guarantee her entry into all WPBA events. Sure enough, only a routine nine ball would sit between her and victory, but, sadly, she missed it, and went on to lose the match. I chatted with her after the match and she was truly disheartened, having failed to earn her pro status. Melissa, however, stayed confident, and came back strong, shooting the lights out just a month later at the 2002 BCA open, not just earning her WPBA pro status but finishing 5th. As we all know, Melissa has gone on to be one of the very best players on the WPBA tour. I've always believed that when she turned a negative into a positive at the 2002 BCA Open, it was a turning point in her career, and her results since then are truly inspiring.