Egg McDogit said:
I was referring to when the cueball is slowing to a halt and obviously not going to touch any other balls - and you grab it.
I think the call-8 and don't-touch-the-rock rules are good general guidelines to avoid disputes, but common sense calls by a neutral party should be allowed to overrule them - to make sure that deserving winners don't get screwed on some technicality - e.g. Jude not marking his pocket on an obvious shot. Some guy got on me about the same thing and the 8 was hanging in the pocket....at that point you're not even playing pool...you're playing the system.
peace
-egg
The real issue of note is that when there are a set of rules, play by em. People can be as courteous as they want, but that usually opens the door to potential problems in the future. When someone else doesn't give you that courtesy, do you then essentially demand it? Do you get outraged at them for not playing by your same unwritten rules?
The rules are there for a reason. One of the biggest reasons rules are created is for just that, to avoid potential areas of conflict. If there's a rule that people want different, then get a large enough consensus and have it changed to more accurately reflect how you want the game to be played.
Unfortunately, when you start trying to add in the courtesies into the rule, you're going to find yourself writing some very convoluted rules. Thus, many rules are put into place just to keep it simple and straightforward. The players all have access to the rules, learn em and play by em.
There are a number of pro matches where it's call pocket for the last ball (i.e. 9-ball or 7-ball). The player will not win the game, if they break the rules. The referee makes the rulings only according to the rules. If you want to win the game, then play by the rules.
When you run into issues with players stopping moving cue balls after a foul, most of the time it's OK. The problem is that players start to develop a bad habit of doing it without thought. This later leads to problems because eventually it happens that the cue ball is about to hit something else or potentially scratch (where applicable). As a result, now you have to go to the next level or rules, which is often more complicated and less standardized on how to address that issue. Inevitably, no matter what is written in the rule book, that leaves at least 1 player whining and b*tching about that rule being different than what they believe it should be. As if, just because that player believes something at the time (which usually helps themselves out), then the rulebook should follow their personal belief. Nevermind that the rule has been in the book that way the whole time. Everyone has an opportunity to read the rules in advance, understand em, and use em.
It's a matter of your own personal integrity to be able to follow the rules, and be subject to them. We all have to be responsible for paying attention and enforcing the rules where applicable. If you're not paying attention, it's not the other guys responsibility to inform you or not inform you of what's happened. Understandable that players sometimes want to apply courtesies. Just beware that courtesies are not automatic. They are free to give a courtesy or not, at their own choosing. If someone else doesn't grant you that courtesy, but instead follows the rules, do you maintain your courtesy.... or do you become outraged? Many a bar room brawl or lost friendship has resulted as a matter of a so called courtesy (not being applied).
The whole area of sharking, which is a big area of whining from players, is an issue of (imposing) coutesies. Intentional acts of sharking, are one thing... poor sport and desperation. But many sharking arguments arise over frivolous applications or non-applications of courtesies. And then fights erupt.
Much of this can be eliminated, if people would simply develop the rigor and willpower to adjust and play by the standardized rules (not the rules in their head).
Maybe this isn't a very popular opinion, but it's brutally honest. It's at least a very simple solution that can be very clearly and consistently enforced.