i am willing to raise the bet anytime i feel i have the best of it. and tend to quit whenever i feel that has changed or ask to adjust.
i set the parameters of the game before we start. you play me and either can quit at anytime you want just like playing in a casino.
plus i dont play sets. then an argument is only over one game.
who pays time is decided before as well. i usually say winner pays time, which is me most often. but nowadays many places have monthly rates so some players time is free so they dont feel they should pay for your time and i can see that as you dont pay for theirs.