The most famous internet stereotype is the online bully.I'm worried about pocketing balls, not if some dude feels accepted for fondling them.I don't understand how non-gay people have time to promote the lifestyle, even if they are totally fine with it. Are they just busy bodies? I work, spend some time with my family, do some work around the house, shoot some pool and that's all the time I have. I couldn't imagine spending time on promoting something I wasn't involved in. I wouldn't promote the game of golf as I don't play it. I guess different people have different hobbies and interests but personally I don't have the time in the day to spend promoting something I'm not involved in. I'm not hateful to gays or anything, just I don't really pay much attention to the subject, I'd rather see a person as a person and not their preferences in the bedroom.
It seems really odd for old timers, but you're right on the social media thing. It influences people's hobbies, the ads they see, the videos they get recommended etc. You really can't understate how much social media influences people getting involved in different activities like pool. You have to play the algorithm, and it's a full time job.
But to further answer your question, I don't think the lifestyle is shunned in the pool world, but I don't think most people playing pool focus on such things, they are too busy trying to improve at pool. It's hard to say, this site is more for pool enthusiasts, I know I forget that some people just go out to the pool hall as a date night activity and such. When I'm playing I study the table and kind of forget the background stuff that's happening.
However other personalities are being turned away just because...
This is a problem in many communities. Its safe for a family to go to a pool hall and not be bothered. But if a gay does that in a small town, you can imagine what happens after that.
Your opinion is not a problem, it can keep pool alive in the few places that have public billiard halls. Just don't expect a resurgence.
Live and let live. When one of your pool buddies runs into a problem, I get it they need to solve it on their own. I support that.
Talking to people is useless. I am taking a 2 month break.