Let me guess. You are 70 or below in handicap. right? I am not really saying anything bad about the league. It is designed for the low handicaps. What they don't know, and prolly don't care, is that in order to get better at pool they must play better players and the good players are not playing in this league for the most part.
I'm a 60 though it's not actually relevant. As I said before, what you're describing does not happen in my league. If you'd like to continue discussing what happens in my NAPA division (which I use as an example to illustrate the point that you can't make sweeping statements about leagues), perhaps you'd also like to tell me what I ate for breakfast.