I wasn't singling anybody out. You see this far more often in league play, imo. That's not to say leagues are bad they are just not for me. I had a captain that tried to call a foul for not marking an obvious eight ball on an opponent of mine. I told her i was not taking the game and racked for my opponent. I ended up losing the match on the hill. She was livid, I explained my position and she backed off. I don't play pool for the wins I play for the purity of the game itself. Wins are good but only if I feel I deserve them.i want no part of a win that I didn't earn. I am certainly not going to hide behind a ticky tacky interpretation of a rule to steal a win, it would mean nothing to me.
Marking a pocket is a ridiculous rule and leagues that require it are ridiculous. I think they know it creates drama and intentionally use it for that reason.
But this was different. There were no nit-picky rules like pocket-marking here. The no-coaching rule is a good rule. No one was trying to "steal" a game. It was just a question of when you have to call the foul and whether it should be loss of game or ball in hand.