I would find a cue dealer and hit a bunch of balls with various cues...here in Dallas, Omega billiards will let you hit some balls with ANY cue they have in stock. Perhaps there is a place like that in your neck of the woods...if not you'll find 80 different cues in your local pool hall on a weekend, just ask a few folks if you can hit a ball or two with their sticks.
As for tips, it is a preference thing, but if you aren't really sure about using English, or your fundamentals are not solid, any mistakes you make may be magnified, if you are just starting out and buy a Mcdermott with a G-Core, they come with a Medium Tiger Everest, pretty good tip, but it will give you an idea of whether you want a Harder or softer one after you figure out your position game or get your fundamentals down.
As for gloves, I find that a lot of people have different factors in choosing whether or not to wear one, if you have naturally sweaty hands when you shoot, it might be an advantage...after all the predator gloves are like 11 bucks...not too big a price to pay if you want to find out.
Good luck in your search, hope you find all the equipment you need...and I hope you love this game for decades to come!