I think I understand what you are saying, but this part isn't clear to me. Do you mean that you respect people that encouraged you go through hard work to achieve your goals? Whether or not you pay cash (be it for a "class" or an "opportunity"), you can have mentors either way. And either way, they can't implant psychological knowledge into your brain without you deciding that it is important to you and to do the work required as a student.
We can have fraternal groups that encourage us based on shared fascination for the game itself, not guarded by the exchange of money. If you literally mean the exchange of money builds character, which I don't think you do, then I don't agree with this at all.
Edit: Additionally, though I've never met you in person, I've only read good things about you and your reputation. I was not alive during the previous era when circumstances and the social relationship to the game were different. Therefore I am not a serious detractor.
This is a deep topic, which is why I prefaced my statement “the world has changed “
meaning, in the past most things were earned not given. And I had more respect for guys who earned it. That’s shifted a bit over time, decades.
These days with all the free information anyone would be crazy to “pay” dues. So my perspective has changed with time.
so I respect your views and my old views. My current view is inline with your views(mostly-I still believe action will develop your full potential-there’s few exceptions in pool, Ralf Soquet is a example of a champion who doesn’t like action & has my highest respect)
that clear things up a bit? I’m not arguing with you at all. I’m old and seen a shift in life, culture, the way things work
I wish with a few clicks I could have learned what took me years to learn.
I can’t get mad at anyone learning a different way than I learned. And how I learned must be respected by others who learned their way. It’s a 2 way street. Mutual respect between the generations.
hope that makes sense,
best
fatboy <——— can’t stand typing on a iPad lol
One last point, if I didn’t respect what you have to say. I wouldn’t take the time to respond to you, I’d just let it go. Your points are valid.