Billy_Bob said:
Just playing for fun... But I also play this guy in tournaments.
He is one of a kind and I have not met anyone else like him.
Actually I have a bit of psychology under my belt... I enjoy watching this guy and listening to what he says to other players. I have seen him totally destroy his opponents confidence with his "mouth".
I assure you each and every word out of his mouth has one goal, and only one goal. That is winning.
Most other players don't know what he is doing, they will say: "I can't understand why I can't pocket a ball all of a sudden!" They don't understand that they have been the target of a well thought out psychological attack.
LOL did you ever stop to think that perhaps the reason why you beat him "just playing for fun" is because the guy can't and won't bear down playing for nothing? You have nothing to be proud of, not until you beat this guy playing for something. Even then you shouldn't be "proud" because you just killed your action!
I wonder why pool attracts such egotistical players. Players that, no matter how the match goes, all they care about is winning. They could play the most terrible game of their life, and get left the 9 hanging in the hole every game by their opponent, and to win like that makes them feel good. Any win makes them feel good. They need all the pride and glory of winning.
Myself personally, if I win a match playing terrible, I hate it, I don't feel good about anything (mainly tournaments). I have always been more concerned with my performance than anything. I want to play solid all throughout the match. If I play solid and still lose, I am happy. I have played against pros just shooting around "for fun", like Tang Hoa, Santos Sambajon, Jose Parica, Max Eberle, Dave Hemmah, Ernesto Dominguez, etc. Every time I won a game against one of them, nobody saw me go dancing around the room saying "I beat a pro nya nya nya"
Billy Bob, I think you need to look at the game in a different light, or quit playing for a while. For you to be upset when a good player "gives" you the match by conceding is one of the dumbest things I've heard of in a long time. You wanted to shoot that last ball because you wanted people there to see you shoot that last ball, it wasn't for yourself. But let me give you a quick explanation that NOBODY that was there watching, GAVE A CRAP about you beating a guy playing for nothing. When you learn to start betting something, then you will realize how much of a blessing it is sometimes when a player concedes a game, because when your nerves are rattled the easiest shot becomes tougher.