pool and his usefulness in life

Solartje

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hiya all,

i'll write first my personal experience, and i'd like to see how others relate to it, if they have the same experience, others etc?

first of all, ive started playing recreational pool the first times, whenever i had a bad day. Gf who broke up, bad day at school, personal problems, etc. It seemed to be the best thing for me to work away my anger/hate/sadness. I was mostly a ballbanger back then , as banging balls, even if its not professional, we must admit, sometimes i just feels GOOD to SMACK a ball in that pocket, hear the magic SNAP when it hits the back of the pocket. It really helped me work away all the anger and hate i had in me. After some years, i also went to play pool when i was sad. I was starting to be play better, and the combination of SMACKING a ball in a pocket to get away the initial anger, and then try to clean a table slowly and controled made me help to control my anger too. i always felt greath after playing pool for a hour. I also always played alone. Just me and the table. something notable was that i seemed to play very good when i was angry or sad.

now i posted 2 days ago, i had a very bad tournament, and some consitency lapses, and today i got bad news i didnt get the dream job i wanted. i had some very positive intervieuws, and i was close on having it, but for some weird reason i didnt get it. Putting me back into financial problems, having to ask my parents to loan me money (i always HATE to do that, but only solution for me) and well i just had a very bad week. MY gf suggested me to go to the poolhall, and she would pay for it and id pay her back later. So i went, and like usual, when im angry/ sad i found my game back again.

last week i couldnt clear a 9ball rack in less then 4 innings, and yesterday i played the ghost in 8ball for 2 hours, and i won. only racks i didnt clean from the breake where those where the rack wasnt tight (they have crappy triangles and balls and tables in my karaoke barr) and there where just TO much clusters to be able to run out. But when i had only none, one or two small clusters, i run out everytime exactly how i wanted, without any big effort.

now i was wondering, if many people started playing pool to control there anger, instead of going into a barr, getting drunk and starting barr fights. what are your experiences of how pool helped u in your life. angermanagment? selfasteem? being less shy? lasyness? competivity? etc...

for me when i play pool for recreation, (no competition or training) its 90% of the time to manage my anger by smacking, and once anger is away, the slowly controlable table clearence, help me regainc focus in my life and get back on the track.
 
I don't know about anger management, but I do know that when the troubles of the world are getting me down, the poolhall is a place where I know I can go and get away from it all. Nothing makes me feel more in control than playing good pool.

Also over the last year or so I've been spending a lot of time competing, and working on my game. That has taken away from the time I'd be chasing women. Therefore kept me out of trouble. I don't know any women that would put up with the amount of time I spend playing pool, and I think that's a good thing. I'm sure that when I did meet the woman that didn't have a problem with it, I'd probably marry her.
 
nice story too supergreenman. about the woman stuff i know exactly what u mean. when experts say man think every 6seconds about sex, well i think i do better. i think every 2 seconds about pool. when im not playing, im learning, when im not learning, im thinking, when im not thinking, im teaching it, when im not teaching, im talking about it, when im not talking about it, im posting here.. I got lucky to find a girl who didnt mind it SO much in the beginning, but after she came to some tournaments, and ive talked about pool with her, she got adicted to it too. i started teaching her 2 months ago, and im writting her in a D player tournament only. She's getting AS hooked as me. When i discussed with her about buying a table, she said ONE table???? NO WAY!!! we need 2 tables!!! i want to have my table free 24/7 for whenever I want to train. no way im going to wait till u are not training.

Maybe your lucky woman works in a poolhall? maybe she's a poolplayer too? and honestly? playing pool on my own , and shooting the lights out , has given me more phonenumbers of girls who wanted to date me, then i ever had by puching someone in the face in a barrfight and kicking everyonce butt, and by getting drunk in a nightclub.
 
Solartje said:
now i was wondering, if many people started playing pool to control there anger, instead of going into a barr, getting drunk and starting barr fights.
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Why not start a pool hall fight?

That's what it seemed like was on the guys mind who was at my pool hall last Saturday. Complaining about 500+ in child support a month, no drivers license, and that he was looking for a fight. He threw his money (a buck and change) and the dollar bill hit personal belongings. I went to hand it back to him, and he threw it again. I packed up my cue, payed my table time, and left.

Mind you, I outweighed this guy by at least 60lbs and wrestled all through college, and I am training in Jujitsu actively. I could have had a better workout in with my Jujitsu class than with this guy, but man the last thing I want with a family and mortgage is to get into a fight with some scumbag dude in a pool hall.
 
Hey, Solly- sorry to say I am gonna change the subject a bit...
You say , "pool and his usefulness in life", are sports, in your language, either male or female? I am entertained by language trivia and certainly mean no disrespect- I really want to know.

I had a Vietnamese officemate and I used to make fun of her about the fact that she rarely used plural nouns. She finally told me to STFU, there are no plurals in Viet language- the words for "eat 1 chip" and "eat many chips" are the same.
 
Black-Balled said:
Hey, Solly- sorry to say I am gonna change the subject a bit...
You say , "pool and his usefulness in life", are sports, in your language, either male or female? I am entertained by language trivia and certainly mean no disrespect- I really want to know.

I had a Vietnamese officemate and I used to make fun of her about the fact that she rarely used plural nouns. She finally told me to STFU, there are no plurals in Viet language- the words for "eat 1 chip" and "eat many chips" are the same.

Hiya black-Balled :D well u might have noticed, im a math guy, and im VERY VERY VERY bad in spelling. Im as bad in my own language as i am in englisch. I just cant write a sentence without a grammer error. So about sport... mm im sure there is a plurar, but is it male of female? ill have to check the dictionary for that... i think its male... :o not sure, and to lasy to go find a dictionary.. :D
 
Solartje said:
Hiya black-Balled :D well u might have noticed, im a math guy, and im VERY VERY VERY bad in spelling. Im as bad in my own language as i am in englisch. I just cant write a sentence without a grammer error. So about sport... mm im sure there is a plurar, but is it male of female? ill have to check the dictionary for that... i think its male... :o not sure, and to lasy to go find a dictionary.. :D

OK- forget about the plural part! But tell me the truth about Frank VandenBroucke instead:rolleyes:
 
Black-Balled said:
OK- forget about the plural part! But tell me the truth about Frank VandenBroucke instead:rolleyes:

lets make a seperate trade for it if u really want :) but im nog a biking expert. im a pool player :cool: dont mind some ot, but i hope to get more reply's about the subject. (not that i minded your ot question at all :) just dont want to change to much. i know u understand m8

greats from silly solly.
 
Black-Balled said:
Hey, Solly- sorry to say I am gonna change the subject a bit...
You say , "pool and his usefulness in life", are sports, in your language, either male or female? I am entertained by language trivia and certainly mean no disrespect- I really want to know.

I had a Vietnamese officemate and I used to make fun of her about the fact that she rarely used plural nouns. She finally told me to STFU, there are no plurals in Viet language- the words for "eat 1 chip" and "eat many chips" are the same.

I have an oriental dentist, and it is the funniest thing you have ever heard; She is very Americanized, and you can hardly detect, if any, accent, but her plurals, too are messed up. It's the weirdest thing in the World to hear someone, in perfect, clean English, say "Oh, Olde City section of Philadelphia? I love to go out clubbing there. I have many friend there.":D
 
Hey Solly,

I used to find it relaxing to play pool when I was young. I could get rid of a lot of stuff that would be bothering me and have a lot of fun in the process. :)
Now I get frustrated because I don't play anything like I used to, and for some reason the last few times I went to play and relax there were people wanting to play me for money that I couldn't even afford to lose (not much money either). On top of that they were ALL TOP PROS.:eek: Guess they were just passing through town, but it's weird the coincidence. I'd love to just be able to go into some place and shoot for hours and try to get a little something of my old game back without someone trying to hustle me.:confused: :rolleyes:

Terry<:(
 
i know how it feels terry. (well i dont, cuz i never been hustled. we dont got hustlers in belgium :) ) but financial problems etc are never funny. and they can be frustrating. lucky we all got pool. My im making it TO big, but pool really made me a better person in life (and i mean charachter wise and not sportswise).

i do got to note, WHEN i need to play pool to get away of anger or sadness i never go to a GOOD poolhall, i just go to my local karaoke barr (guess its starting to become famous hihi, maybe ill post some pictures of it one day) and i go JUST when it oppened, so i am sure i can play for 3 hours without having anyone there to bother me, and the owner just plays cards with the barrtender, and i can choose my own music, and thats my little "me" space where we all need to go sometimes in life, when things are getting rough.

maybe u have this little "me poolhallplace" near to u, with 2 or 3 crappy barbox tables, where u can play without being bothere by ANYone, no drunk guys, no females, no hustlers, no ballbangers.

i hope the financial things work out for u terry.

greats from not-so-silly-post-today solly :p
 
Solartje said:
maybe u have this little "me poolhallplace" near to u, with 2 or 3 crappy barbox tables, where u can play without being bothere by ANYone, no drunk guys, no females, no hustlers, no ballbangers.

i hope the financial things work out for u terry.

greats from not-so-silly-post-today solly :p


The little "me poolhallplace" is a bar with regular tables, but that's where the hustlers go. Lately I hear they play poker tournaments there (me and cards..not good idea). I'm going to check around, there's about a dozen or more places to play in town.

Thanks, I'm hoping too!:D
 
Why not start a pool hall fight?

Hang out with me and they just come to you without even trying. I go to the brazilian jujitsu classes to keep the guys who out weigh me by 60 pounds from really kicking my ass. :)

And yes, i play really great when im angry but also when im in a hyper happy type mood.
 
BarBoxBandit said:
Hang out with me and they just come to you without even trying. I go to the brazilian jujitsu classes to keep the guys who out weigh me by 60 pounds from really kicking my ass. :)

And yes, i play really great when im angry but also when im in a hyper happy type mood.

did it help u in some way in your life?

terry, gl and maybe not a bad idea to check them out. like i said i play in karaoke barr with a unleveled tables, WORST table in the world :cool: , but who cares, its not about making a 300+ run. its about the "me space". try to find there opening hours. i love to play when they just opened. might be helpfull to you too to find the peace.
 
Solartje said:
hiya all,

i'll write first my personal experience, and i'd like to see how others relate to it, if they have the same experience, others etc?

first of all, ive started playing recreational pool the first times, whenever i had a bad day. Gf who broke up, bad day at school, personal problems, etc. It seemed to be the best thing for me to work away my anger/hate/sadness. I was mostly a ballbanger back then , as banging balls, even if its not professional, we must admit, sometimes i just feels GOOD to SMACK a ball in that pocket, hear the magic SNAP when it hits the back of the pocket. It really helped me work away all the anger and hate i had in me. After some years, i also went to play pool when i was sad. I was starting to be play better, and the combination of SMACKING a ball in a pocket to get away the initial anger, and then try to clean a table slowly and controled made me help to control my anger too. i always felt greath after playing pool for a hour. I also always played alone. Just me and the table. something notable was that i seemed to play very good when i was angry or sad.

now i posted 2 days ago, i had a very bad tournament, and some consitency lapses, and today i got bad news i didnt get the dream job i wanted. i had some very positive intervieuws, and i was close on having it, but for some weird reason i didnt get it. Putting me back into financial problems, having to ask my parents to loan me money (i always HATE to do that, but only solution for me) and well i just had a very bad week. MY gf suggested me to go to the poolhall, and she would pay for it and id pay her back later. So i went, and like usual, when im angry/ sad i found my game back again.

last week i couldnt clear a 9ball rack in less then 4 innings, and yesterday i played the ghost in 8ball for 2 hours, and i won. only racks i didnt clean from the breake where those where the rack wasnt tight (they have crappy triangles and balls and tables in my karaoke barr) and there where just TO much clusters to be able to run out. But when i had only none, one or two small clusters, i run out everytime exactly how i wanted, without any big effort.

now i was wondering, if many people started playing pool to control there anger, instead of going into a barr, getting drunk and starting barr fights. what are your experiences of how pool helped u in your life. angermanagment? selfasteem? being less shy? lasyness? competivity? etc...

for me when i play pool for recreation, (no competition or training) its 90% of the time to manage my anger by smacking, and once anger is away, the slowly controlable table clearence, help me regainc focus in my life and get back on the track.

Sol... ask yourself "What's correct?", Then ask yourself "What's incorrect?".

The answer is there.
 
Solartje said:
Hiya black-Balled :D well u might have noticed, im a math guy, and im VERY VERY VERY bad in spelling. Im as bad in my own language as i am in englisch. I just cant write a sentence without a grammer error. So about sport... mm im sure there is a plurar, but is it male of female? ill have to check the dictionary for that... i think its male... :o not sure, and to lasy to go find a dictionary.. :D

Talking about language, here is a comment which makes me laugh everytime I think about it - from Fabio Petroni during an exhibition: "My English is so bad I cant understand myself".

So dont worry Solly, I think everybody here understands you.
 
All I can say is your on the right track, the trick is to figure out what makes you play good and exercise that.
 
....now i was wondering, if many people started playing pool to control .......
I didn't start playing for that. Just something to do while drinking at the bar. Then I continued to play because my good buddies were better than me and I wanted to hang with them. But now I play because it takes my mind off things. Then again I'll keep on playing because, well theres no because anymore. I just do.
 
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pooladdict said:
Talking about language, here is a comment which makes me laugh everytime I think about it - from Fabio Petroni during an exhibition: "My English is so bad I cant understand myself".

So dont worry Solly, I think everybody here understands you.


Yeah....Solly don't worry I've always understood your posts. If anybody doesn't understand they'll ask you to clarify.;)

Terry<says... but maybe you shouldn't post on pain meds!;) :D
 
:D ah well it adds to the silly solly character :) solly wouldnt be silly without it.

i guess most people started playing pool, because a friend did, or to have something to do in a barr. I really did it as a part of my anger/sadness managment in the worst part of my life.
 
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