I used to play every day at work against people whom were far and away better players than I. I'd barely ever touched a cue prior but I'd always had fun when I did. The people at my work were all very competitive so they felt no need to teach me how to get better, it was very frustrating watching them run half their balls and then missing my own shot just to watch them finish up the game. After a couple weeks I really started paying attention to what they were doing and observing how they held their cue, the angles they used and the stroke speed. They thought they were just having fun kicking my butt but they were teaching me more than they knew and I loved every minute of it after that because each loss was a lesson learned. My game improved a lot, although that's not saying much, and while I never beat any of them I still got what I needed out of it. Don't watch the table, it'll just depress you, watch the player and the cue ball.