ARM9BALLER said:He was sorry for bringing it up. It had nothing to do with the fact that it was true.
Your right Russ. Those are your opinions. I just hope no one in your family becomes a drug dealer(Like your son), because you would want them dead. Right? Big fan of the death penalty?
Well, since you asked, I'll let you know where I am coming from. I'll start with a story.
A friend of mine comes up to me when we are working in Qatar, and asks if I had heard about the kid in Tampa (where we both lived) who killed an FBI agent. I said no, and he told me the kid had ran a red light late by at least 3 seconds, and had broadsided the FBI agent, and pushed him underneath the wheels of an oncoming bus. Died instantly. Kid had minor injuries.
My friend asked me what I thought the law ought to do to the kid. I told him the kid needed to go to prison for at least 3-4 years. He killed someone through an irresponsible act.
Then my friend tells me it was his son who had killed the FBI agent. There was a silennt moment, and I said, "Sorry that happened man. Sorry you had to hear my opinion on what he should get, but you asked me in such a way as to get my real opinion, uninfluenced by the fact you are a friend.
I did NOT turn around on my opinion and tell him I hope it all worked out for his son. I have more integrity than that. He told me he understood, and it was okay.
I then went home and told my 16 year old stepdaughter that if she were in the same situation, of killing someone through her own irresponsibility, that we would not pay for any lawyer, or be responsible in any way for any court costs other than those mandated for us to pay until she is no longer a minor. Same with drunk driving.. Same with drugs. She knows my personal opinions on all these things.
So.. to answer your question.. YES, I would believe in the death penalty, even for my own kids. I've taught my kids to be responsible. What they do beyond that is completely on them, and they know they are held to the same standard as a total stranger.
To the best of my knowledge, my 19 year old stepdaughter has never done drugs, even though drug use is rampant among the teens in our area.
My stepdaughter understands that the minute she either flunks out or decides to quit college, she is no longer welcome to live at home. I hold my kids to an EXTREMELY high standard, and funnily enough they have little problem with that. They are well on their way to becoming productive members of society.
Look at it like this. If there was an enforced death penalty for hard drug dealers, would you see drug use as rampant as it is today? Very unlikely.
If there was an enforced death penalty for a first offense of drunk driving, would people drink and drive? Doubtful.
There are a lot of easy fixes for certain problems in society, it's just that most of our citizens do not have the willpower to see these things through.
And yes, I AM a BIG fan of the death penalty. We don't use it on enough offenses, however, and there are too many appeals. I think if we could shorten the appeal process to 12 months, that would be awesome.
Russ
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