I use the green tape from 3m, the blue does stick alittle harder, but I've also used it before, and it should'nt pull the finish off that easy if cured well, and cleaned correctly before clearcoating. 1000 is really slick though, and some finishes may have a hard time sticking. I really don't go any higher then 600 in between coats myself, and sometimes that seems too smooth too me, but that's just Me. Buffing & polishing is another story though.
I use to worry about having the cue really smooth between coats, even use to wetsand LOL, but It does'nt seem all that important to me now, as any swirls seem to blend in fine with 600, proper sanding & cleaning. It's the fish eyes I sometimes have issues with what I'm using now to finish with.
Chips will come off with tape too, but Even on a vehicle the paint can peel off the primer If the surface was'nt just right. The products you use to clean, seal, and topcoat with, need to work together also. Alot of finishes fail due to uncompatible products.
BTW, If your taping the wrap groove off, then you may just need a method for it that works for you. I have used several. 1 was to simply pull the tape while wet as mentioned already, another was to let it dry mount a sharp thin tool In the post to cut the tape loose from the finish, but that can lift the finish also, if you don't get a sharp tool for it, and back the other side up with paper to keep the edge from raising. Another that sometimes works is to sand the finish alittle with the tape still on, just enough to thin the finish at the tape seam out some, and if luckly the tape may pull off cleanly. Notice I mentioned If lucky. don't sand toward the forearm though, always sand toward the wrap groove, and use clean paper so your not loading a piece up from the tape area then putting it on the good part of the finish.
Once you get the tape to pull cleanly, you get to have more fun figuring out how the clean the groove faces up without chipping them. Sometimes you get lucky and don't have to when doing a finish job, but not all the time.
I have'nt decided on My standard pin size yet, so still have'nt got a set of sanding mandrels. What I have been doing for the joint lately is sealing before installing the pin, then I match the shaft up, and spray them while screwed together. at just the right time during the flash, I grab the wrap groove area, and above the finish on the shaft, and unscrew them. If you do at the perfect time, the result is a perfect joint that just needs micromesh to take the sharp edge off. If You wait too long and let it dry, then It might shatter the finish when you unscrew, and too soon the faces will get saturated, and you'll have to reface. Obviously that can't be done at the wrap groove though, because that would be too easy LOL.
Good Luck with it,
Greg