Hey King-
I think you brought up an interesting factor to your cue selection and that of playability.
When I was in your exact position last year, playability was a major factor because my intent is to keep my cues, not trade or sell them. A local player here in Atlanta said that he tried many of the big name cues but settled on a Mike Gulyassy cue because of it's playability.
Since Mike is in South Carolina, it would be well worth your time to contact him and have him determine some options as to a custom cue. Being a custom cue, you have the advantage of getting the correct size of cue, depending on the hit you like, Mike can suggest a variety of woods, can offer different joints, etc..
The bottom line is that you would have a custom cue that fits your exact playing requirements.
The key to Mike is that he is a pro player. As a player, he knows the different kinds of feels players want. Since he can relate from a players standpoint, it gives him a tremendous advantage on desiging and making your cue.
As far as looks goes, I think many cue makers can make a gorgeous cue. But I think the key is, does it play well.
Give Mike a call and I promise you will enjoy your cue your whole life.
You can communicate with Mike on his website: babysproshop.com
Good Luck.
Stevie G