The joint plays as big a part in the feel of a cue as does the tip, taper, ferrule, etc. Some people will disagree with me on this, but I know it to be true IMO.
The other thing you will find is that cues from the same maker with the same build can hit very differently. With the different piece of wood, drying time, how many cuts and how close together, and even as little as a couple mil difference in thickness will change the cue dramatically.
I have come to the conclusion that the best cues, no matter the make or build, have a certain vibration frequency to their hit. I think when someone likes the "feel" a cue, they are referring to the way the impact of the tip to the cue ball travels to their hand via energy/vibration.
I think some very smart cue builder will someday design a piece of equipment to test the vibration of a cues hit, and market each cue with a designation of that vibration number. We could also see the difference when a tip is changed, and what that does to the feel, .......because FEEL is subjective, and very hard to explain to another person, or cue builder.
Maybe I'll build something today?!
Gerry