Then what does this mean from your earlier post: "It’s how I’ve shot under par while not being a good golfer and it’s how I’ve bowled 299 and 300 games."
Nobody shoots under par in golf through the power of positive thinking, deep breathing, nerves control, prayer, chanting, a mantra, mumbo jumbo, rubbing a lucky stone before each shot, clicking your heels three times before each shot, unless they really know what to do with the swing for every type of shot there is during a round and execute it under the pressure. The top pros out there gag under pressure and hit crappy shots and have high scores. No amateur that really doesn't have the experience or knowledge is going to do it.
I don't bowl but I'm pretty sure nobody can bowl a perfect game without being a long time bowler either.
And last but not least, pool. All same as above. Nothing like having a good chunk of change to make the heart flutter and the
ass to pucker for making the cue go cockeyed coming into the ball and the CB running too far or short while not in line for multiple shots in advance.
Btw, the baby isn't going to give you much practice time for anything. All that having been said, you sound like a fun person to be around.