What Do You Make Of This?

pharaoh68 said:
Hey guys! Pharaoh here.

Anyway, I need some advice. Last night, I was laying there thinking about all of the easy outs I have botched over the course of my life and all of a sudden, this hot chick calls me.

She says "Hi! I'm a hot chick. Come over and we can have crazy, hardcore animal sex all night long! The kind of sex that would make a hound-dog blush!"

Naturally, I did what any young man in his sexual peak would do:

I popped a sleeping pill and went to bed. I told her I wasn't interested when,in fact, I really was.

Do you think I did something wrong?!?!
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Priceless......
 
Cuebacca said:
This thread rules! DCP, did you guys end up going to the drive-in??
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nope, never got together. she kept calling, we kept making plans, but she kept cancelling.

just to set the record straight: the night she called i had already taken a sleeping pill, was really tired, it was raining out, and it was an hours drive to her place.

i did the right thing. Sean Connery would be proud.

DCP
 
DCP, I don't know how old you are and I don't want to know. All I know is that if you're old enough to drive a car, you shouldn't be going to a pool forum for relationship advice.

Drink a Redbull, throw an extra shirt/tie in your car and spend the night at her place next time.
 
DrCue'sProtege said:
nope, never got together. she kept calling, we kept making plans, but she kept cancelling.

just to set the record straight: the night she called i had already taken a sleeping pill, was really tired, it was raining out, and it was an hours drive to her place.

i did the right thing. Sean Connery would be proud.

DCP
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Well, maybe I'm the only one who thinks this, but from what you've told us so far, you probably didn't hurt anything by NOT going over there that night. It was near midnight, a two hour round trip drive, and you had to work in the morning. Did she have to be at work as early as you? Probably not. You showed her that you're not going to toss out your priorities just to cater to her every whim. What girl wants a guy that she can walk all over? (Wives don't count. LOL.)

Sure, maybe you missed out on a night of, ahem. Or, maybe once you got there, she would have really just wanted to talk all night and nothing else would have happened, and you would have felt like complete crap the next day for nothing. I'm not trying to be pessimistic; I just don't buy into the idea of hurting yourself in hopes of some physical reward. If you do things on your terms, she's going to like you more for it, IMO.

If she calls up late during the week again, you could just tell her, "Hey, why are you calling me in the middle of the night? You must be frustrated. I'll tell you what, I'm tired and have to work in the morning, and I am busy tomorrow night, but I am free on Wednesday. Are you a good cook? I'll come over at 6 and let you make me dinner. I am partial to Italian food. Don't buy dessert, because I have a surprise* that you'll get a kick out of." Then you can bring some of your famous home made ice cream. :D

* What girl doesn't like surprises? Don't tell her what it is, ESPECIALLY if she starts asking repeatedly. Maybe then she won't flake on you because she wants to find out what you've got up your sleeve. ;)
 
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wise words indeed Cuebacca! truer words were never spoken.

DCP

p.s. the fact that i have no contact, zero, zilch, with her anymore pretty much tells me she was just trying to use me. i aint nobody's fule..........:cool:
 
DrCue'sProtege said:
surprise! this isnt about a shot, or position, or a How To thread, or how i messed up again.

anyway, this gal calls me last night about 1130, i was already in bed. between 1130 and 3:30 this morning she called me four times. she even invited me to come up so we could lay in bed and just talk. it was an hours drive, so i told her it was too late, and i was too tired - which was the truth.

we were supposed to go to the drive in theater tonight, but she didnt call when she was supposed to, and then sent me a text msg cancelling due to still being at her sisters house and running late.

so, what do i do next? she looks pretty sexy, so i want to sort of hang in there without seeming like i am needy.

DCP
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Call her and be honest about your feelings and concern.That would be your best thing to do.Explain that you are not common to new relashonships and you are concerned if you had made a mistake.Also do not worry about being dropped or dumped.If anything you may have gained more interest.You should call and be honest and tell her what your feeling and your concerned you made a mistake.I think if you do this you will find that the whole matter blows over and you will be back on track with better foundation as you have shown concern and honesty for for and with her.This goes a long way.Do not try to over explain it just straight out tell the truth.No stories or excuses just the plain truth will be more than adaquit.Also let her know you were really looking forward to tonights date.It may be you both have misconstrued the situation.

Also for you guys,Just so you get a call at night wanting to talk and spend time is not a booty call.That way of thinking is why most men can not keep relashonships or get good dates.Or end up with wrong impressions.She may have been looking to spend some quality time talking or needed a friend who she could trust to talk to.She wanted to spend time with him.This will better build a future friendship and relashonship.I talked to my husband many times in the bed and we spent the night together in bed many times (slept)before we had intercourse.But with this bonding and trust and friendship we built and we made for the best 30 years of marriage.

If you get the matter set make sure in the future you give a solid and honest reason why you can not spend the time and ask if she really needs you at that time.With that question she may have gave you a reason why she felt she needed you at the time that would have made you put on your boots.There is alot more to a woman than a booty.She also may have been checking if you would be there for her or what your feelings are.Just talk to her and be honest.
 
Also I would place this in the non pool related section.There are a few there that are more apt to give you and adult concerned and informative response on this type of subject.
 
DrCue'sProtege said:
wise words indeed Cuebacca! truer words were never spoken.

DCP

p.s. the fact that i have no contact, zero, zilch, with her anymore pretty much tells me she was just trying to use me. i aint nobody's fule..........:cool:
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Don't get me wrong, man, I think you should still go for it if you're interested! You mostly likely still have a chance. I don't mean to imply that she's up to trying to use you. She's probably just feeling you out, so to speak.

Just lean back, and like you said, don't act needy no matter how you decide to go. If you're still interested in hanging out with her, wait a week or two since you last heard from her and then give her a call.

For whatever reason, she seems highly prone to flaking. So, you can try calling her up when you are free right then to meet up with her so that she has no time to get cold feet. Or, if you make plans for a future day (hopefully squeezed somewhere into a generally busy week for you ;)), you can just ask her, straight up, what is the likelihood of her flaking out this time. If she waffles about it, you can just tell her, well, never mind then, getting flaked on is my pet peeve, just give me a call if you decide that you actually want to hang out.

JMO.

Good luck, DCP. Let your 007 side shine. :D

P.S. I agree, this should be moved or reposted in the NPR section. :) While you're at it, check this out...

http://forums.azbilliards.com/showthread.php?t=70891
 
You shoulda used high right and come around three rails.




Apologies to jude for the blatant ripoff :)
 
You *somewhat* did the right thing. You don't just jump up and rush out acting like you haven't had any in a year.

You should have replied, "Baby, I'm on something good right now (sleeping pill) and I'm just relaxing in bed, thinking about you. How about you slide out from under your covers, make the hop, skip, and jump over here and slide back in under mine."

Boom. You nap til' she gets there. Do your thing for 5-10 minutes (however long it takes you). Go back to sleep (after you tell her to go home), and you would have felt like a million bucks the next day.

You've got to lay your pimp hand down DCP...lay it down.

Case closed.
 
someone please...

someone needs to drive a stake through the heart of this thread, cut off its head, stuff it with garlic and bury it upside down in an unmarked grave...
 
DrCue'sProtege said:
surprise! this isnt about a shot, or position, or a How To thread, or how i messed up again.

anyway, this gal calls me last night about 1130, i was already in bed. between 1130 and 3:30 this morning she called me four times. she even invited me to come up so we could lay in bed and just talk. it was an hours drive, so i told her it was too late, and i was too tired - which was the truth.

we were supposed to go to the drive in theater tonight, but she didnt call when she was supposed to, and then sent me a text msg cancelling due to still being at her sisters house and running late.

so, what do i do next? she looks pretty sexy, so i want to sort of hang in there without seeming like i am needy.

DCP
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If your best source for relationship advice is a pool board, my advice is to lay in lots of hardcore vids and lube.

pj
chgo
 
coopdeville said:
DCP,

What happened last night is known as a BOOTY CALL.
you played that completely wrong, she'll never call you again.
forget about it.
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that is 100% right, never ever dog a booty call-they dont call back. And when you do show up AWALYS remind them they owe you one. This dude hasnt got any game in any game.
 
DrCue'sProtege said:
wise words indeed Cuebacca! truer words were never spoken.

DCP

p.s. the fact that i have no contact, zero, zilch, with her anymore pretty much tells me she was just trying to use me. i aint nobody's fule..........:cool:
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I don't think it means she was using you... I think that after you repeatedly put importance on everything but her (e.g., brushing her off so that your dinner didn't get cold), that she realized you weren't ever going to put her first. That's a smart girl's first clue to get out quickly.
 
Wow, this thread just killed about 15 minutes of my time, lol :rolleyes: :D . Not bad entertainment, lol.

First off, an hour drive isn't that bad. Grab a cup of coffee, redbull (whatever it takes) and some good tunes and you would of been fine.

Second off, if you were really interested in this girl, LET THE FOOD GET COLD!

Third, and most important, NEVER EVER PUT YOUR LOVE LIFE ON AN INTERNET FORUM!!! ESPECIALLY A BILLIARD FORUM WHERE YOU KNOW THE PEOPLE!!!

I apologize if this sounds harsh, but truthfully, the way that she makes plans and keeps cancelling em makes it sounds like she wants to keep you on a leash in case nothing better comes around. Sorry to break it to you. Goodluck! :rolleyes: :p ;) :D
 
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coopdeville said:
DCP,

What happened last night is known as a BOOTY CALL.
you played that completely wrong, she'll never call you again.
forget about it.
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I disagree, from my perspective you played it 100% right. But, it would depend on how long it's been since you got Laid. If I am already in bed I ain't leaving for a booty call. If she want's it that bad I will unlock the door, go back to bed, and she can wake me up when she gets there. Regardless I would never consider hooking up with a chick who is an hour away. I hate driving, and there are plenty of women around town.
 
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