Using stun or hitting slow are the worst options. Throw can be minimized by using a medium speed and natural rolling ball or draw that still exists when contact is made. You don't have to hit it hard, just a decent speed will do the trick. I've heard snooker players talk about following through the shot, that's their way of describing the stroke. About the same speed as hitting the ball 2.5 - 3 lengths of the table - 2 lengths would be a lag shot, so a little harder than that should do the trick. A little outside english can also be used, minimal compensation if any should be needed when using a LD shaft and medium speed at normal distances.
And as Bob said, if those are not an option because of position you need to learn how to compensate as well by just hitting a little thinner. You need to practice all options and mostly just be aware of when throw is enough of an issue to possibly affect the shot outcome.
Scott