You should have never let them get away with it. Call them out on the carpet when they do that. ( Including me)
I intentionally didn't name any names, but I have to acknowledge that you were the one who at least tangentially addressed the question. The other answers were a stock description of a basic stance (not the question, although the word stance did appear) and a referral to where I could pay something like $50 a month to get an answer from some videos. I'm sure they are great videos and well worth the money, but that isn't what I had asked.
Maybe I'll try again.
I appreciate what you say about not letting them get away with it, but I find it had to hold anyone's feet to the fire when I am asking them for free advice