I've been pretty vocal about this issue, throughout this thread, and others. Here's whats happened recently...
As I've said in the past, the primary place where I play is an Eagles Club. As it is a private fraternal organization, it is not subject to the smoking regulations here in the state of Maine. Yet this club banned smoking about 5 years ago, based on a vote of it's membership. (It was relatively close, at the time.)
The club lost some long time members, and gained some as well. I believe the numbers are down slightly from before the ban, but I think its relatively close, and there are other factors that affect membership beyond the smoking issue.
In the past few months, there is a new liquor inspector in our part of the state, and he has been on the prowl at all area night clubs, enforcing the regulations on how far people have to be away from doors when they are outside smoking (at least 20 feet). Many places (including our club) have had outdoor, fenced in smoking areas that were fenced in so that patrons could take their drinks outside and smoke. This guy is enforcing that you can't do that any more. As our club is private, it isn't subject to the same regulations, but since food is also permitted out there, apparently the specifics of where smoking is permitted on the premises had to be voted upon by the club, else we would also have to enforce the rules like public places.
I am a vocal anti-smoker. Yet I campaigned loudly and prolifically for our membership to retain the smoking policy in our patio area. Why? Because outside, it is completely manageable on the part of both the smoker and the non-smoker. Inside a building, the non-smoker has no real choice in the matter.
I enjoy going outside with my friends, when they are having a smoke. We can enjoy our conversation, they can smoke, I can avoid it, and we all get along.
The vote passed in favor of retaining the existing policy. Overwhelmingly.
Why do I point all this out? Because it is possible for smokers and non-smokers to be able to coexist. We have a great smoking area, and the inside of the building is smoke free. I don't have to go home smelling like an ashtray.