Rude Dog said:I've been playing the same guy here in my town for almost a year now and he refuses to take a spot from me. We play races to 7 for 20 bucks and in the year that we've been playing, he's won maybe 5 sets. Only once did I talk him into taking a spot and it's because I told him I wouldn't play anymore if he didn't take it. We started off even, then to the 8, then the 7, then the 6, then the 5, and then back and forth from the 4 to the 5. We played like that for 2 days then he said he couldn't take it anymore, so now we play even again. I'm not complaining at all because with my income, those $20 sets buy me lotsa Big Macs.However, in the past, when I was still learning the basics about the game, I wasn't afraid to ask for a spot. I knew that in the very near future, those same guys would be asking me for a spot, and that's exactly what happened. Learning to play with a spot or giving up a spot is very different than playing even. All of those "Hero" shots get thrown out the window. Safeties seem to be the best shot at those particular times. LOL. Anyway, just thought I'd share a little experience with those that care to read what I've got to say.
Rude Dog, you are exactly right about learning to play with a spot. If you are playing even with a weaker player, you tend to try stupid shots to keep the break going and trying to run as many racks as possible just because it's nice to run many racks. If you play stronger player without a spot, you tend to think that you should lose and often you do. If getting a spot from a stronger player, you must take advantage of the spot and play well, because that gives you the opportunity to win. If giving a spot to a weaker player, you must play well to win.
I've just recently started giving spots to weaker players. Just some time ago I played against a newbie who is getting quite good and can run a rack or two at best. On a race-to-7 I usually lost 1-4 racks, but now I spotted him 4 racks in the beginning, so it was 0-4 to him, race-to-7. And guess what, I beat him 7-4, 7-4, 7-4, won 21 consecutive racks on him. Giving a relative large spot I brought my A game to play, because I needed to play well to win and eventually I did.