Which is exactly why I'm at a loss as to why Gamma has made themselves the spokesperson for Bob's side of things. :scratchhead:
I like Bob but I don't particularly care for Ray. I'm not letting my personal feelings about these two guys cloud my judgement on this particular issue. I will say that I find Bob's silence and Gamma's carrying on about it rather off putting.
I like Ray ok,never met him, don't know Bob personally either.
Gamma posted this to see what others on here have to say about the situation so here is my view point.
A. Gamma it wasn't your money, not your dog in the fight, stay out of it and let Bob speak for himself.
Should go for all of us.
B. I would not accept the kind of money that Ray accepted without knowing explicitly what it was meant to be - a donation or a loan. Once I knew what it was, I would get it in writing before accepting.
Yes, always put it in writing.
C. If Bob (not gamma, but Bob) thinks the money was a loan, then shame on him for not getting it in writing.
Yes indeedy.
D. If Ray knows it was a loan (in his heart of hearts, knows) then shame on him for taking advantage of someone being kind enough to help him.
IF.....big if.That's why ..GET IT IN WRITING!
First time, shame on you. Second time, shame on me. :wink:
You forgot......third time, WE GOTTA PROBLEM and someones gonna get it!
Excellent post.....Urackm I give 9 stars and one extra star for expressing most of my thoughts on the matter. Now I'm staying out of it.:thumbup2: