Neither of us were trying to convert the other one. All I said was that I genuinely think that Lou would see the merit in the methods if he would get together with Stan. Lou said he genuinely doesn't want to spend time with any method he feels is useless.
At the end of the day I can respect anyone who sticks by their conviction. In leather working there are methods that some people swear by and others think that are not needed. I am the type who tries them out and if I find them useful then I keep them and if not then I forget about them.
Others don't even try them because they already know that they have no use for them. That's fine.
Where I have a problem as I explained to Lou at the end is in actively trying to stop people from learning them. And it's my perception that continually interrupting conversations about them to voice your opinion that the methods are useless IS actively trying to prevent others from using them. Now, in fairness Lou said he should be allowed to express his opinion.
I agree but it should be clear to everyone that this is where discussions turn into arguments and arguments turn into snide remarks and snide remarks turn into challenge matches.
So this all boils down to the new way to hustle being attacking another man's methods.
Kidding but no one was trying to convert, we were conversing and I paid 10k to have the conversation.