You talk about disdaining safety play and not being willing to learn it and wanting to be near the people who thought like you and then say that it was the other people who weren't willing to show you stuff.
Sounds more like it was you who wasn't willing to learn anything to me.
I'm willing to show and teach new stuff to anyone who's willing to learn, but if someone gives off an attitude like theirs is the best way, I'm not going to even bother trying to show them anything.
That's just asking for trouble. So you might want to rethink the reasoning behind what you experienced. Could it be that it was you who were being unreasonable with the BCAPL players and that the APA guys just didn't give a shit long enough for you to come around to being willing to learn new stuff???
Jaden
you got it all wrong jaden.
like i said earlier ... i watched pool on tv and was amazed at how effortlessly they ran racks. i was amazed at how the commentators would draw out a diagram between shots what the player was going to do next and where the cue ball would wind up.
more often than not jimmy mataya and ewa lawrence would be spot on what the shooter would do next. she wasn't bad to look at either.:grin-square:
i wanted to learn how to play like that. as i stated i did not feel welcome at that pool hall. it closed about a year later and in the 15 years i lived there another one never opened up.
as for my bcapl experience..... i enjoyed it. like though , no one was willing to teach any one any thing. as for the 9 ball team i played on...i was the best player on that team....who was gonna teach me any thing ?
the 8 ball team had a very good player but every time i called a time out to ask him what i should do he acted like it was a chore to go=ive me advice. maybe it was just the way my area was but i don't think bcapl is conducive to teaching new players.
you have the round robin format where every one id playing every 30 min or so ....when does any one have time to work with some one ?
in apa you have a race format . every one is always waiting for their turn .a lot of people spend their time waiting playing on another table. i have played people on my team and people on opposing teams while waiting for my match. any time some one makes a certain shot i ask how did they do that ? they are more than willing to show you. it seemed like bcapl players had the mentality ... i aint showing you shit you can use to beat me when we match up.
as for it taking me a while to come around to playing defense....well there are several factors involved.
number 1. you dont change what you have been doing for 30 years overnight.
2. it takes a while to learn when to play defense and when not to. you don't practice defense in the middle of a match.
3. i lacked confidence in my cue ball control for quite a while. sure i know the general area where its gonna wind up .... but to me just getting in the general area is not good enough for me....a few inches one way or the other with the cue ball can be the difference between a win or a loss. again you don't practice that in the middle of a match.
i use defense a lot now but there are days where i revert back to my old ways of trying to make every ball possible....some time it works and some times it don't.:grin-square:
a couple of examples here.
i faced a 7 a week ago who complimented me on my " killer safes " as he called them .
a few weeks ago i was in a 4-4 race in 8 ball. after me losing 3 racks in a row trying to have a shoot out with my opponent i started playing safes. the 1st 3 racks went 4 innings. i won the next 4 in a row. the entire match went 43 innings. so yea i do know defense can win matches.