Mania, I feel as if I should know you. My wife had ACC(adenoid cystic carcinoma) a little over 4 yrs ago. Had surgery 12/6/2012, successful. Permanently paralyzed left side of face. I put everything on hold for about 3-4 months, poker, pool, everything to take care of her. Full recovery so far.
I am praying for both of you that everything is successful, and that you have a long and happy relationship.
My wife, Paula and I are going on 45 yrs. Robert Newkirk