Your stroke should look good even when you miss a hard shot. 

  A guy once told me when you learn to look good even when you got a hard shot  you will  start making allot more of em. Even if you miss , look good doing it. Didn't make much sense at the time but  I took this  as good advice from allot better player than I am and there is some truth to it if you think about it. Allot of times when you miss you did something ugly. You jumped up, you one stroked it, you jabbed it,  you changed your mind and didn't get up and take another look and the list goes on and on.  We all do it . Some less than others .  Fact is the  one who does  it less make those harder shots more often and more times than not will beats the brakes off us guys that do it more often.