Why Do Grown Men Stare At Women in

I propose that black yoga pants and shirts with a plunging neck line be the mandated uniform for women at all national events.

And I'm perfectly willing to accept what women choose for men to wear.
 
beneath_the_sur said:
if they dont want to be looked at in the pool hall they will make sure not to wear clothes that reveal every curve in their figure

if it doesnt bother them and they wear revealing clothing, who cares
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I am not really responding directly to you (or at least not only to you), and this is not an attack. But a few comments:

1. Men will look at attractive women no matter what they wear. They may look a little more if the clothing is revealing, but they will look even if she's wearing jeans and a t-shirt. Women will also look at attractive men.

2. I look. But I try very hard not to stare in a way that makes women uncomfortable. I may not always succeed, but I try. I absolutely do not make comments that make them uncomfortable.

3. If we want the sport to grow, and for that matter if we want to be gentlemen (to use a old term), we owe it ourselves and women to try to make them feel comfortable in a pool hall, not uncomfortable. We should not treat the pool hall a "male domain" where women who enter assume the risk of being harassed. Anyone who has seen those viral videos of women walking down the street being catcalled should see immediately how it would make a woman feel and verbal comments are not always necessary (and those videos also show that men who want to harass women will do so no matter what the women are wearing). I refuse to believe that any man doesn't know the difference.

4. Making women feel comfortable (or not uncomfortable) also includes things like simply being respectful in other ways - not being condescending and treating her like a newbie and offering tips in a condescending way. We have all seen it, and can easily contrast it with someone being genuinely friendly and helpful.

5. Women read this forum. Probably not enough of them, but they do. But when we don't see them comment we tend to forget about them. Remember that they are reading and let's try not to say things we wouldn't say with women we like and respect listening.

Regards,

Gideon
 
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As you admit I also stare, and only when I feel they don't notice but I to also fail at times
And I definitely don't make stupid comments

That is all
 
bad_hit said:
Why does everyone think women can't play? Don't be stupid, there's just way less of them who play at all and therefore way less good ones. Come to the Pacific Northwest and give my girlfriend the 7 and the breaks and she'll rob you.
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I say the same thing to the women that roll into the retirement center in their
wheelchairs, and no, I don't think all women need wheel chairs.
 
you dangle a steak infront of a lion, even a dog

eyes will enlarge
tounges will hang
mouth salivates
a tail might even wag

its only natural

;)
 
philly said:
Relax. Don't take yourself so seriously or maybe you should stay off of the threads that beg a little joking around.
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My first azb pissed off argument thread...and only 117 posts in! :thumbup:

Listen up cheesewiz, women-hatin ain't cool and it's even less cool in a game that could more players so it doesn't go out of business. Smarten up coolwhip.
 
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bad_hit said:
My first azb pissed off argument thread...and only 117 posts in! :thumbup:

Listen up cheesewiz, women-hatin ain't cool and it's even less cool in a game that could more players so it doesn't go out of business. Smarten up coolwhip.
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Whoz women's hating exactly!? Where do you get this from
?

, im in the women appreciating category
 
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bad_hit said:
Anyway chickengizzard, ladies good. Alright there cremebroulet? You got that shrimpsalad?

Really wish I didn't skip lunch.
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Only a women would hijack a thread about why men stare at women, and make it a food & cooking discussion.
This thread is about why grown men stare at women, not about how women feel when they are stared at, or weight, or cooking.
The problem is we know that some women don't like to be stared at, yet we choose to do it anyway.
To make it worse, men automatically assume that women can't play, and should stay in the kitchen.
The question is why...please enlighten me


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I sorta thought that watching women bend over a table was why pocket billiards was invented.

The same thing happens in the engineering world. A woman in a meeting is strange thing. I wonder if some of the turbo nerds have ever actually seen a nipple up close without having to stuff money into an article of clothing.
 
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bad_hit said:
My first azb pissed off argument thread...and only 117 posts in! :thumbup:

Listen up cheesewiz, women-hatin ain't cool and it's even less cool in a game that could more players so it doesn't go out of business. Smarten up coolwhip.
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Stan is looking for you.
http://forums.azbilliards.com/showthread.php?t=423658

Start posting there. We all have too much of a sense of humor for you. Plus, at least one person will appreciate your help, now that everyone's done reading that forum.

Gentlemen, as you were!
 
PocketPooler said:
Gentlemen, as you were!
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happiest pool cue/table/room in the history of pool cues/tables/rooms
 
macguy said:
There actually may be an answer. Most men are so insecure about their own sexuality they have to show other men they are interested in women. You will even see it on here with some avatars. They have to show they like girls. It sounds goofy because you know you are not gay but you still feel the need to keep proving it.

I have been in pool rooms for over 55 years and I have to say, I have known a lot of pool players who I don't think have ever had sex. They seem to like then company of other men much better. Not in a gay way but certainly in a curious way.
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You sound like a wife
 
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