I don’t have a problem with playing call pocket if both players agree. The way you came across in your initial post was that you won’t gamble unless you get the rules that you want - “When I play for money, my opponent has to play by my rules.”The rules in a money game are set by the players of said money game. There are no 'recognized & well established rules'.
It didn’t sound like there was much room for negotiation in your statement. If I misunderstood, I apologize.