I show emotion when I blow the table runout jawing the last ball to win the game.
It’s okay to show enthusiasm or frustration because you are emotionally vested.
Anyone that’s played a team sport knows that you get excited over what your
teammates do as much as what you do. It’s a team win or loss, not just yours.
Well, that only gets amplified when you are the solitary competitor and playing
1 on 1 rather than a team. Every mistake or great shot is your fault or your credit.
And when you marry that with what the player’s expectations are and how they
actually perform, that becomes a magnifying glass of your skills and also attitude.
Yup, I show frustration and exuberance but not to the point of overdoing it. 2 secs.
of a facial wince or imitating a short right hook even while holding a cue in my hand.
When you invest the mental effort and try your physical best to do something, then I
submit it is mentally healthy to express emotional reactions but in a low key manner.
It is normal when you care deeply about competing at your best. In those moments if
you play a shot carelessly and miss, you want to scold yourself so you avoid doing it.
Conversely, when you control the table playing masterfully but still encounter a tough
shot to play safe or go for it and you pocket the shot & get shape, you feel like cheering.
I don’t know about you but I have never seen any baseball player hit a home run, pro
or amateur, and treat that as a Ho Hum type hit. Just trying your best is worth a cheer.
p.s. I make it a point to stand during a match even if it lasted hours. Sitting makes me lazy.