I am not a BCA member, but I want to play in the mens singles, am I able to?
You could do what Dr Pool mentioned, OR, you could jump on a team in my BCA League on Wednesday Nights from Stingers. We do have 1 or 2 teams are looking for a solid player. I believe as long as you get 4 weeks of play in before the Southwest Event that you can play in singles. And if you continue to get 8+ weeks of play then you will be qualified for Nationals! (which I know you want to play).
Let me know!