MisspentYouth
Banned
About 10 years ago I played in the World Open (chess) and I wasn't in contention in my section anyway so it didn't make any difference whether I won or drew. The kid I was playing was probably @11 or 12 and his parents were right there in the tournament hall. At one point he had a clearly lost position and he went over to his mother and started crying. So, I played a few more moves and offered him a draw. He was ecstatic. And I have regretted that ever since. I felt good about it that night. But that is the exact wrong lesson. I should have stepped on his neck and choked the life out of him. Not only should you have 3 safed this kid, you should have insulted his mama and taken his lunch money too. That is the only way to build a future Shane Van Boening.