There are three things to always consider when designing an "A" joint.
First of all, the threaded part, whether a screw or a threaded tenon, is merely an internal clamp to hold forearm/handle together while adhesive cures. Design the joint so that once your epoxy is cured, it wouldn't weaken the cue by removing the threaded part. The threads are only there to act as a clamp, and become obsolete/non-critical once the epoxy has fully hardened.
Secondly, rings between the fore & handle are considered "accent" rings for a reason. They are aesthetic in nature ONLY, and are not intended to be structural. The more rings you have sandwiched in there, the more faces you have to contend with. Not only is the cue going to most likely move, but almost certainly will eventually buzz. If you are going to use rings in that location, then figure out a way to make them non-structural. You do not want them bearing the load or being a buffer between the forearm & handle, or else you'll keep having the issues you're having.
Last but certainly not least is the tenon. It's purpose is not alignment, but rather increasing glue surface. With that in mind, the larger the diameter gets, the more glue surface area you have, and the more surface area you have the stronger your joint will be. With that said, there is a point of too much. A tenon too thick will weaken the side walls of the bore, so find a nice balance. Doesn't have to be a mile deep, either.
These are a few things that if considered while designing your joint, will make a world of difference for you. It's nice to see you are experimenting & learning hands on. There's no mystique or mystery to doing a solid "A" joint, so don't over engineer it. Once it's a solid joint, it's as good as it can ever be. And use better glue. I suggest T-88 by System Three, at least until you have learned enough from experience to find the glue that works best for you. T-88 is a superb, idiot proof, over night epoxy. It's gooey & thick & sticky & messy but it doesn't fail and isn't expensive.