I feel your pain, crawfish. The current batch of guys we get in our weekly tournaments is a really good one, actually, but I am all too familiar with having to put up with the whining and complaining of guys who: a) never truly work on their games, b) won't bet two cents with the bulletproof nuts, and c) only want to play players who play worse than they do so they can boost their egos. Then they come in to a tournament, getting games on the wire from the guys who actually do work on their games and have paid their dues, and they b*tch constantly about who's ranked what, or who beat who that shouldn't have, or even a $10 or $20 entry fee for Christ's sake! It's like "Dude, man the f*ck up and just play pool! If you lose, go practice or get some lessons. It ain't rocket science." What's really bad is that it's generally been my experience that the older players are worse about this that the young, upcoming players are.
I get especially frustrated when someone approaches me and says "How can that guy over there be a 4? He just kicked a ball in and ran out on me!" At times I've truly felt like I was in a daycare, except with a bunch of kids who are like 50+ years old. The worst of them have no concept of what really great pool is, so they cling to stories about some dude who made a one-in-a-thousand shot on them 32 years ago, which in their mind elevates this guy (who nobody's ever heard of, BTW) to Mosconi-esque status. And then of course you have to hear this crap when you beat one of them; "Oh, you play pretty good, but you shoulda seen old Joe Blow play. One time I seen him make this shot..." What's worse is that this stuff puts a mindf*ck on the young upcoming players who, because of what some old dude who's been a C player for 40 years said, think that playing great pool is just about making the occasional God shot that people will talk about for years to come. So then they come to me for advice, and I have to break it to them that playing great pool is not about how many great shots you hit, it's about how few poor ones you hit, and what it really boils down to is a whole lot of really, really hard work, and probably lessons, to achieve great consistency.
Aaron