You're new here so I'm sure you'll figure it out if you haven't already. There are two certainties of posting on AZB:MAHA - In point-of-fact, if you carefully re-read the OP, I specifically and only asked for:
1. 'Advice' on how to transport a crated table long-distance from those with real-world experience in these matters, who have solved this transportation problem for themselves in the past (q.v. "Anyone who has dealt with having to figure-out their own long-distance delivery, would you please advise me on how I too might get this done..." - GJ);
And,
2. At no time did I asked for 'Opinions' - as you have misstated above: (q.v. "you asked for opinions and i gave you mine..." - MAHA) - on how I conduct my personal business (q.v. "...no seller is going to let you haul it away and then base whether he gets paid on your acceptance..." - MAHA), and my preferred methods of conducting my financial affairs (q.v. "...you will have to pay in cash..." - MAHA) when dealing with Banks and Estate Trustees across state lines;
And,
3. I certainly never asked to receive the unsolicited and quixotic psychic prognostications (q.v. "...you wont get to buy this..." - MAHA) of the projected future outcome of my business dealings from anyone, at anytime;
However,
I did asked to learn from those with actual past experience in these matter of Long-Distance Transport to estimate what I might expect to the reasonable transportation costs of moving 1200 pounds of crates a distance of 1000 miles to be, based on what their own realized costs were and what method they used. As I stated in my reply post to you, the actual transport quote came in just under $1000.00 - being 1/3 of your Opinion - which only confirmed to me, that the informed and experienced voices - offering advice based on Fact - were coming from directions other than the location which you occupy.
Furthermore,
As to your statement above (q.v. "...then you turned on me..." - MAHA):
1. I merely asked you 3 open-ended, qualifying questions; thereby, offering you to support and expand on the source and validity of your claimed knowledge and insights - all 3 of those questions still remain wholly unanswered at this point in time;
and,
2. I have not, at any time, asked nor offered you to engage in business with me (q.v. "...i would never do business with you..." - MAHA);
and yet, lo-and-behold,
3. The one thing you are 100% correct about, in all statements you have made thus far, (q.v. "...or will post any help for you..." - MAHA); based on our shared experience of the quality and serviceability of your responses to-date, I would say this is the one statement which is most-likely to prove true over time - being of absolutely 'no help' whatsoever thus far, with regard to the question of the thread, specifically being: Advice on moving a table 1000 miles.
Correct you are, Sir. - GJ
1. Opinions on posts will be given whether you want them or not.
2. You post will be hijacked and taken off course at some point.
The sooner you come to grips with these two certainties, the much more enjoyable your experience will be in the community.
I understand what you are wanting to accomplish but a question has yet to be answered: What's so special about that Gold Crown? It is a well preserved, pristine example living its entire life in the seller's home? I'm just trying to capture a shimmer of understanding as to why it has to be this table. If it is a unicorn, the teardown and transportation is a risky proposition for both you and the seller. There really are no "professional" pool table movers specializing and guaranteeing the transport of a pool table without a nick, scratch or ding. If there were, it would cost you much more that $1 per mile. If the intent is as I've described, you are looking for someone akin to an antique furniture mover. Those companies are not cheap.
You seem like a very particular individual, which I can appreciate. I know the purpose of the escrow is to ensure you receive the table in as described condition and in the event it is anything other, you can back out. Truthfully, I see this happening here. It will get some transport scars because the movers will not care as much about the item as you. If it were me and the table in question was an untouched original Gold Crown I, I'd want to see and inspect it before purchase and personally handle the disassembly, packing and transport to ensure it was done properly to my satisfaction. There would be A LOT of moving blankets and shrink wrap involved. Doing it otherwise is a roll of the dice.
Best of luck. I hope it works out to your satisfaction.