Background first. I joined an APA league in the middle of last session. The team was kind of thrown together and players changed often. This session my wife decided to play as well. I told my captain I was going to start another team as his roster was full.
He says no just put her on this team and remove him because he has to start working nights in 3 weeks any way. Now most times we don't have more than 5 players show up anyway. He could have removed 1 guy who has been deployed or or another that will never play. But he says nope he will take his self off "because he has to start working nights in 3 weeks"
Now 20 minutes into the night I walk over to see another team member to see if he wants 8 or 9 or both. He is standing with my now ex-captain. Ex-captain says I started a new team and he plays on it now. Now the team has really lost 3 players because a 3rd guy owns another room and will not play hardly ever. Most likely never as he and the ex-captain were friends.
My new team consist of my myself, wife and another couple and another lady. This lady who will often show up and say she will have to pay next week because she only has her quarters and beer money. She is there most nights early to get a few beers in. I don't care for that part but what bothers me more is she can not shoot, she can not take instruction even when she does ask for it.
She never shoots a ball other than on league night when beer is on special. Then she whines about shooting so bad. I tried to be nice but still make a point by telling her that if she doesn't practice she will not get better. She says but I don't have the extra money to practice. I looked at her and told her she could drink a couple less beers and play 6 or 8 games each night before league. She has been in the league for a few years I guess but I will be looking for new players and play her less in hopes she quits my team. I feel guilty somewhat about this.
On the other hand I feel I owe it to the team. The rest of us practice and limit any alcohol so as it doesn't effect our game. While we want to have fun we want to win as much as possible. We do not like the idea of losing because a player drinks to much and doesn't try to improve.
What would you do in this case?
I would also love it if some of you out there could pm me about how I should try to match up players for the night.
We may never win but we won't sandbag either.
Thanks,
Ron
He says no just put her on this team and remove him because he has to start working nights in 3 weeks any way. Now most times we don't have more than 5 players show up anyway. He could have removed 1 guy who has been deployed or or another that will never play. But he says nope he will take his self off "because he has to start working nights in 3 weeks"
Now 20 minutes into the night I walk over to see another team member to see if he wants 8 or 9 or both. He is standing with my now ex-captain. Ex-captain says I started a new team and he plays on it now. Now the team has really lost 3 players because a 3rd guy owns another room and will not play hardly ever. Most likely never as he and the ex-captain were friends.
My new team consist of my myself, wife and another couple and another lady. This lady who will often show up and say she will have to pay next week because she only has her quarters and beer money. She is there most nights early to get a few beers in. I don't care for that part but what bothers me more is she can not shoot, she can not take instruction even when she does ask for it.
She never shoots a ball other than on league night when beer is on special. Then she whines about shooting so bad. I tried to be nice but still make a point by telling her that if she doesn't practice she will not get better. She says but I don't have the extra money to practice. I looked at her and told her she could drink a couple less beers and play 6 or 8 games each night before league. She has been in the league for a few years I guess but I will be looking for new players and play her less in hopes she quits my team. I feel guilty somewhat about this.
On the other hand I feel I owe it to the team. The rest of us practice and limit any alcohol so as it doesn't effect our game. While we want to have fun we want to win as much as possible. We do not like the idea of losing because a player drinks to much and doesn't try to improve.
What would you do in this case?
I would also love it if some of you out there could pm me about how I should try to match up players for the night.
We may never win but we won't sandbag either.
Thanks,
Ron