And Another One Bites The Dust

dodgecharger said:
Yea well at my age the girls just wanna play with you....but yes there are many men that way to teh only reason i didnt say that is cuz im a good guy

and i didnt mean to say ALL of them are *****es just Some of them.....the ones i know

:) lol
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wow....i didnt know it edited haha ****** .......mabye it wont edit that....


sorry for my profanity in advance


I will though. Please, Don't do it again.
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dodgecharger said:
yea i want alot of strangers attention because i cant live without it.....

im not trying to be an ass but i started the thread for some insight on what i can do from people who may have went through somthing like this in there lives i dont think im gonna just DROP Playing if other people could go through what i went through and it all turned out good for them in the end

i just wanted some help im probally not acting like myself right now i usually dont ask for oppinions but oh well

thanks supergreenman i think you may be right about the girl thing they act like its all about them. ive had some freinds and they where all cheated on too i guess its all a matter of time ALOT OF WOMEN ARE JUST *****ES i hate it......

ok well that was probally a mean thing to say.
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You're more than welcome to ask for some insight, that's what this forum is all about, but you seem unsatisfied with the responses you've received. The only advice you seem to favor is the advice you were leaning towards anyway. A web forum is not usually the best place to seek moral support, that's what family is for.

Everyone has thought about quitting for a brief moment, but most of us realize it's just a temporary lapse of sanity and we get back on the horse.
Obviously you didn't really want to quit playing pool or you would have just quit. You're feeling sorry for your situation, which is understandable, but you're not the first to go through troubles. We all have, and remember, pool is just a game, life goes on with or without it.

My earlier point was that it's usually a good idea to know what you want to talk about when starting a thread. Your thread started about wanting to quit because your parents were sick and you had no money from giving it to them. Then it was about the girlfriend who won't let you buy a cue. Then it was about should you leave your girlfriend. Then it was will another cue help you recommit. Then your parents were fine when they were very sick three posts earlier.

Honestly, you're all over the place, very neurotic. Maybe you need to speak to your guidance counselor or a family member?. I'm genuinely concerned with what I read. :)
 
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When i say they are PERFECTLY FINE...i mean there not in a hospital bed fighting for their lives

they are the kind of sick that is very unpredictable...dad was in perfect shape then BAM heart attack outta no where mom was fine and then she collapsed while talking to me in the car...and died twice on the way to the hospital b4 they got her straightened out...all im saying is that you cant predict theese things now she has seizures about once a day where she goes off daydreaming and doesnt remember anything when she comes out of them but all in all i dont think they are the kind of sick that they will be in the hospital taking all of my money to help them. they are the kind of sick that if im sitting here talking to mom she might just fall over and die.

thanks for your advise on going to a guidance counselor but i have been to a phyciatrist and they say nothings wrong with me and to just be calm and do what i enjoy doing
 
Charger, have you been accepted into a college? Are you financially able to pay for college? If the answer to either of these is "no" and your parents don't need you to take care of them, my suggestion would be to check out the military.
You sound lost and borderline depressed to me. The direction and focus of military training along with the physical regimen will cure those ills. You'll be well paid, learn a skill, have some great adventures and when you get out will have $60,000 to go to college on if you want.
Good luck and never stop asking for advice.
 
dodgecharger said:
thanks for your advise on going to a guidance counselor but i have been to a phyciatrist and they say nothings wrong with me and to just be calm and do what i enjoy doing
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So play pool and be happy.:)
 
bamadog said:
Charger, have you been accepted into a college? Are you financially able to pay for college? If the answer to either of these is "no" and your parents don't need you to take care of them, my suggestion would be to check out the military.
You sound lost and borderline depressed to me. The direction and focus of military training along with the physical regimen will cure those ills. You'll be well paid, learn a skill, have some great adventures and when you get out will have $60,000 to go to college on if you want.
Good luck and never stop asking for advice.
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oh wow....i cant really reply to that im sorry because if i do it may be offensive but i will say that i have never liked the whole "Armed Forces" thing its DEFFINATLY NOT for me thank you for the idea though
 
Spend time with your family.....

If you have the chance to spend time with your family, do it. Pool will be there when you get back to being able to spend time playing the game. My parents are both gone too many years now and I will never be able to spend any more time with them. As far as the girlfriend, get her a card and a rose. If she thinks you should spend more tell her to get her priorities straightened out and be happy that you could and did get her that.
 
Sorry but white graphite cues ain't taking you nowhere.
You need to go to war with the right tool.
 
Dude, I went through some very similar things when I was young like you. My parents split up, 2 very good friends died, longtime girlfriend screws me over...etc. I always had my pool table in the basement to console me. Being able to get away and hit balls did wonders for me.

I'm not belittling your problems, but when you are young...even small problems seem GIANT and overbearing. The older you get....even big problems are put into perspective. It's an experience thing.

I'd say don't treat playing as a black/white issue. Take some time off, and come back to it when your ready. I've had a few layoffs but never have I been without a cue for the last 25 years...I'm 40!

Take it easy man, good luck,

Gerry
 
Gerry said:
Dude, I went through some very similar things when I was young like you. My parents split up, 2 very good friends died, longtime girlfriend screws me over...etc. I always had my pool table in the basement to console me. Being able to get away and hit balls did wonders for me.

I'm not belittling your problems, but when you are young...even small problems seem GIANT and overbearing. The older you get....even big problems are put into perspective. It's an experience thing.

I'd say don't treat playing as a black/white issue. Take some time off, and come back to it when your ready. I've had a few layoffs but never have I been without a cue for the last 25 years...I'm 40!

Take it easy man, good luck,

Gerry
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Thanks Alot that little peice of info helped me the most i appreciate it alot man thanks
 
just relax and take even just a week or two off to sort your head out. it's easier said than done i know but just thinking about your problems constructively will help.

and look at pool as your escape from your stresses. if you think about it it makes no logical sense for you to be stressed out about pool with all the other troubles you've got going on!

re-evaluate your pool game and get some regular structured practice in so you can seriously start looking to improve your game, and stay positive! I'd start by giving myself a slap that i even considered giving up!
 
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