Well- how I see it.
You have good itrader, and plenty of people have been happy with your trades/sales - so put the ball in his court.
Have "trigger" send you the cue first, and if it looks good - then send him the cash, etc. Once he receives his cue/cash in the correct condition, and tells you so - then the deal is good.
This keeps you protected, since you have a good rep around here.
If he won't deal this way, then it wasn't meant to be. And then you should STEAL my Olney instead.
I have done many deals this way with some people who used to be on AZB and have bad rep, and I have not had any problems. You might try this.
Or you can always use ESCROW!!!!
Thanks,
Michael