I lose many games in 9 ball on the 8 or 9, but I still play up to my skill level. Running 7 or 8 balls to miss the 8 or 9 will still give the worse player a win, but that won't mean they are a good player. Shooting in a 9 in the jaws because you just barely missed it is not much skill. I would never want to see a player go up in skill because they beat me 3-0 when those 3 losses were because I left them 1-2-3 ball run outs.
I've lost matches when I ran 90% of the balls in the match but they only needed 3 games to my 7. I'd lose 3-5 or something but they would have shot 3-4-5 balls the whole 8 games we played. Yes I lost, but it's not because of the other players skill that they should not be a 3. They shot like a 3, the issue in the loss is that I also shot like a 3 when I was a 7 LOL.
The game is multi faceted. As a 7 playing a 3 not only should you be able to out shoot a 3, but your game should be "smarter"
and you should be invested in the game, that is if you are always trying to win. Sometimes as a senior S/L player we tend to
overlook some of the lower level players and it can come bake to bite us.
Another thing about being a senior S/L player is that you have developed a consistency. If you jawed an 8 ball and the 3 had a 2 or 3
ball out I have to ask how you got to that point in the first place.
A 3 is never going to be consistently at the same level as a 7, but if he beat you then he deserved to win. If you really played like a 3,
maybe you're a tad over-ranked to be a 7. Sometimes we get beat because the 3 had a good night, or we played stupid and they played smart,
we didn't concentrate and they made every shot count, or whatever.
If we lose to a 3 and they move up then good for them, but one win over a senior S/L player won't move them up. Some of you may disagree
but my thought is that an advance in S/L is earned, wins contribute to that advance.
Let them have the win and don't take it away by saying you played bad, or you gave it away, they beat you because they were the better player that time.
Besides, as a Senior S/L player, if I face that same person in a match that means something I'd much rather have them over confident and playing as a
higher rated player, that can only be good for me.