I've been aware of my APA problem for a few years now. The problem is that every time I get ready to make a break for it, a team of 2s and 3s magically appears and make me feel like I'm wanted. Eventually, they all start going up, it gets more difficult to play, I vow to finish up in league and bam, another team comes along that says they want me to help out, even if it's only part-time(which always turns out more like f/t).
Maybe I just have a league problem, with BCA, APA and now straight pool in a month or so. If I tell the girlfriend I'm going to strip clubs three times a week, I think she'd take that better than knowing I'm out playing league.