So has any one given you a pep talk before a pool game.
My wife and a guy I used to run around with. When I was playing I was usually alone in a place full of people wanting to see me lose. It can be pretty easy to get weak with no one to talk to or on your side. The guy I ran around with actually played better then me but I still did most of the playing. He kind of had problems.
I have to tell you with someone in your corner to keep you going in long or tough matches has a real value. One thing he always would tell even before I started to play was,
"Listen, you know how good this guy has to play to beat you, just play and we will see what happens".
That can be a very true statement even if you end up losing. You at least make the other player have to play their very best to beat you. You can even beat better players with that attitude if you catch them right.
I have beaten better players who didn't know me because I hit them hard and fast and they lost their nerve and pull up because they get scared. That is years ago but I have never been scared of strangers because, I knew how good they had to play to beat me and if they do that is fine with me. One of the things that can beat you is irrational fear.
It is only money, pool is not stock car racing, you can't get killed. Sometimes it takes another person in your corner to make those reality checks for you, eliminate the negative self talk that can take place in your head. I mentioned my wife, with her sitting with me I always felt better.
I forgot to mention, years ago Wade Crane made a audio tape that was exactly that. It was a pep talk to listen to before playing a match. I still have it but haven't listened to it in years. It is actually very good but I have no idea where you would find it today