Building Community

mnorwood

Moon
Silver Member
Growing up in the south I always took the close knit community I was in as being forever. It was built around church, a mutual since of taking care of neighbors and common interests. My community back home was united around fishing and hunting. People change and everything evolves for better or worse. The community of my younger years seams a million miles away and an age ago. Over the last few years I have put more emphasis on not giving in to the trend towards social isolation. I have tried to renew old friendships and make new ones and be more active in face to face groups. Pool has always been a source of good friendships and an opportunity to meet new people. What I'm trying to say is I want to encourage everyone to get out of the house now that covid is easing somewhat and reengage with people at the bar or pool room. If you don't have a group of players to hang out with make some. It will go a long way to saving the game. Pool rooms don't stay open when everyone stays home.
 
I play on a local seniors pool league and practice on Sunday afternoon with one group then Tuesday afternoon with another it helps that our weather has been less than ideal for yard work or more importantly fishing or spring bear hunting .

I've also been coaching some folks with their pool game when the opportunity arises which is very rewarding for all involved.
 
I usually have a hard time socializing but accidentally doubled the number of good friends I had by showing up for the opening meeting of an unsanctioned pool league. I didn't get on any teams as I was a total unknown, but I did get an offer to sub on a team. A few weeks in I got a call to sub and have done so many time this season. I've had a great time and made several close friends and some acquaintances. It's pretty great as pool serves as a common interest, but everybody has other interesting things to talk about that you wouldn't be exposed to. A shared interest in the form of a game is a great icebreaker and avoids the awkwardness that sometimes comes from meeting new people. You don't have to be a conversationalist or social butterfly to shoot some pool together.
 
They say you only get one chance at first impressions.
Is this accurate?

If you were alive when this was on tv, then was taste as bad then as it is now?

I am trying to bridge the multi generational barrier. I think pop culture is safe way to start.

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I get energy and enjoyment from being around (most) people, but it is best enjoyed in a shared interest community. At least then you have a focus and purpose. I have a car community, motorcyle community, airplane community, acting, shooting, R/C stuff and many others. Just getting back into pool after a two decade break, I am looking forward to building/finding that community.
 
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