I avoid paypal like the plague. Use it only in emergency. No mater what you say, friends and family for anything over $50, to me would smell like a scam. If your so honest, accept a check and wait 3 to 5 days for it to clear before sending, no fees that way, or better yet, just set up a charge card acct. You are just trying to screw the system by trying to avoid fees for your benefit. I have shipped items to members of other forums for small amounts, under $100, where I asked them to just send a check, and never waited for it to arrive or clear. Never been burned by a forum member that had a history. If I did get burned, I would destroy their forum reputation. Bought a cue from DZ and sent a check and told him to just send cue when he felt comfortable that it cleared. If I remember right, he sent it when he recieved the check. Bought some extensions from Rick Roper, he sent when receiving check, second order was sent before receiving check. Absolutly no reason a legit business can't accept a check, charge card, or paypal goods and services. There are members on this forum that I would have no hesitation sending a cue to before actually receiving payment.