Rusty in Montana
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I'm a fan of cues in the 18.5 - 19.5 oz I've tried lite cues in the 17 oz range and didn't care for it similar to a couple of cues in the 20 oz range which weren't terrible but felt clunky if you would .
He must have got it custom made, right? How did it play?About 15 years ago I was hanging out at Championship billiards in Modesto and a man around 50, who I'd seen in there before asked me to practice with him..No money involved, just a friendly practice..When we were done he asked me about my cue and the weight , 19.25 oz at the time I said.... He says, " Oh..Thats a light weight"...I said, so what does your cue weigh...He says, "27.0 oz"...I said, no way...He has Audi the owner weigh it and sure enough it was 27.0 oz...He let me hit with it and it felt like a lead pipe...But he played very good with it...
That's the most weight I've ever had anyone tell me they played with...
Any one else ever run into a player with a really heavy cue??
Excellent point. Now I have something else for my OCD to worry aboutIt's not just the weight, it's also how it's balanced. Rear weighted cues tend to feel heavier during the stroke than those balanced in the middle or forward. Wight and balance are about as personal a preference as food or colors, there is not "right or wrong" one to pick, only what you end up liking. What 500 others like does not really mean anything for your own decision past just having 500 different replies and curiosity.
Are you able to pick up a cue and think, oh this feels good. Don't worry about the weight...or the diameter of the tip, etc...just it "feels" good when you stroke it and hit a few balls? Well...find that cue and just use it for a year straight without checking out all of those details.Excellent point. Now I have something else for my OCD to worry about![]()
He said he loaded it up with weight....Actually played O K ..He must have got it custom made, right? How did it play?
Balance and how it goes through the ballI never really cared about weight of a cue. Probably traces back to my old pool hall days where you just grabbed the straightest cue with the best looking tip off the rack and played.
I feel for you and wish her all the best. Sending prayers your wayMy daughter suffers TREMENDOUSLY from Anxiety and OCD. She receives counseling and medication and does great...but real OCD isn't worrying about cue weights. It's a torment like no other, and I won't even get into the rituals and the thoughts.
Ditto. We have a family close to us with a teen daughter who is near my daughter’s age that struggles with clinical OCD and other mental health issues. Very complex & at times heartbreaking situation. Peace to @Matt_24 & his family.I feel for you and wish her all the best. Sending prayers your way![]()
I understand all of this. Fortunately I have found a combination that helps me control it 95% of the time. A beta blocker (atenolol) daily and Xanax “as needed”. Some days I take two, most days I take none. It’s not fun but it does allow me to control that “circular worrying” you described. Good luck.Are you able to pick up a cue and think, oh this feels good. Don't worry about the weight...or the diameter of the tip, etc...just it "feels" good when you stroke it and hit a few balls? Well...find that cue and just use it for a year straight without checking out all of those details.
My daughter suffers TREMENDOUSLY from Anxiety and OCD. She receives counseling and medication and does great...but real OCD isn't worrying about cue weights. It's a torment like no other, and I won't even get into the rituals and the thoughts. An example though would be this...if I don't wash my hands 37 times, my mother will die in a car wreck....and your brain tells you this over and over to the point of being debilitating if you don't get help. OCD is often a very overused term.
My daughter has weekly counseling with an OCD specialists who gives her strategies for dealing with it (she's been doing that for over a year) and has a medication that works well for Anxiety and OCD. Tremendous improvement since finding this good combination of medication and therapy. She graduated with honors (it never affected her school work) and is starting University in August.I understand all of this. Fortunately I have found a combination that helps me control it 95% of the time. A beta blocker (atenolol) daily and Xanax “as needed”. Some days I take two, most days I take none. It’s not fun but it does allow me to control that “circular worrying” you described. Good luck.
When I ordered my Southwest I said I don't care what the weight is, here are the woods I want, the shaft tapers, and I believe we discussed where I wanted the balance point. I still don't know exactly what it weighs nor have I cared.